Would my boyfriend be able to love another girl more than me? Am I just not the right one?

[Anonymous]

I love my boyfriend a lot. I write him love letters from time to time, I send him a message sometimes during the night when he’s sleeping so he’ll have something nice to wake up to. It’s really hard for me to leave him when we’re saying goodbye after seeing one either, yet he’s always saying “I have to go, I have to go.” He’s been telling me for over a year that he’ll write me a love letter, and I keep hoping that it’ll come but I don’t think it ever will.

My question is, would he do these things with another girl? Maybe another girl could evoke more love from him, maybe she will make him want to express love to her like he never did to me. Maybe I’m just not the right one. I believe that when people are in love, they spend more than one day a week together, one will return a love letter if they’re given one, it’ll be hard to say goodbye.

[TransAm85]

I think you're acting a little needy and that's probably scaring him away. You're still young and guys aren't really ready for love and serious relationships at such a young age. Sure, he'll fuck you, but that doesn't mean he truly loves you, sorry to say. He may care for you, but his mind is on fun, his future, and a career. Not settling w/a girl and making a family right now!

[davner]

you dont have to say goodbye if he didn't say it first. im glad that he does other things too (im just assuming here, thinking thats why he "has to go". )
if he loves you then he wouldn't even think of loving someone else.
maybe confront him about it, ask him to be honest and, maybe try talking to him about this?

dont feel insecure for asking, he's the one you love after all.

[FilmGuy93]

Every relationshp is different. The things a man is willing to do for one woman might be a total stretch for him to do for another; it's all about chemistry.

[Sarahplus2]

You sound a bit clingy. Love letters is great when you rarely see each other or he is in the military. Give it a break on the letters. Men are different from women. He may not express himself like that.

[Jessica405]

I think you are chasing him too much. Back off a bit. See what happens. If he leaves you, you have lost nothing, as he would show himself to be worthless.

As for another girl? It would be the same with any girl until he learns to be more appreciative.

[Anonymous]

wouldn't know. the fucking asshole i'm with just keeps cheating and is cheating on me again

[boobliker]

maybe if you don't keep his balls empty...

[zagor]

I hope you are 16.

[jimmy2]

It does happen