I mostly mean men. I just feel like I made a mistake by not finding a partner in college (not that didn't want to, I just was discouraged and thought I'd try dating more after school). It just feels like talking to women at a bar or any public place is a bust. Or, if they do say they're fine with a date and ghost me, I get told that women feel like they have to act interested because men might act violently, which just makes me feel like every negative interaction is my fault.
I just want to know what goes through your head when a guy approaches you and tries to talk to you. I see a lot of women who are single but reject all guys that approach them even when they seem decent.
