How do I get a girlfriend?

Question

I am wondering.

Plenty of cute girls around and i dont know how to get them. Its not like i am shy or insecure. Most Dating courses make it more complicated than it should be. Not to mention they are unhelpful and i rather not wasted my time with those.

I dont believe in lame "pick up artists" and their lying strategies to get girls. Nor do i Believe in getting girls by using money or putting other men down as if they are contenders.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

has real people. All people like to laugh and those who can tell non-sexual jokes draw people (girls and boys) to them. Memorize five good jokes... find the smokin hottest girl in the room. "I have a new joke and need to try it out on someone, are you available." That one line in a hoe dressed night club... with two other jokes that demonstrate "beyond games" has gotten me kissed there. If they start watching your mouth/lips move then kiss them..."golden tongue" already stimulating them. record yourself so your voice does not startle you... in front of mirror rehearse. Develop a story around the actual joke... one that they can identify with THEN joke... Second date, "let's make our own"-bonded forever..."he makes me laugh, ahhh and shares his skills... I love this guy".

Sandeeppingping · Accepted Answer

I've been with my girlfriend for some time now, here is the thing man, be bold and confident af, and I realize you don't like treating other men as contenders but I do that and the reason I do it is not simply because it works, but because it builds a hierarchy in which I'm the man not Billy or Bob, no me, also and that's the most important part, if you relax too much and the girls you like are super hot other dudes are gonna do that to you, and yes it's an uncomfortable harsh truth, but when did anything truly meaningful not have its absolute shitty ass scenarios