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Based on my last post, I had to grab this from one of the answers.
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Okay, I get the intent to what this yocal is trying to say, but I disagree with how it was said it.
Bottom line dating is costly financially, and women in general are flippant a lot of times with men. So in general I would advise women not to expect or accept a man paying for costly dates if you're not on a level with him that you are willing to commit to a physical relationship.
I for one take women on cheap first dates, its not that I don't make over 100K annual income, but I don't like women that put finical expectations or conditions on sex prior to getting to know me.
With that said there are things I look for in a physical relationship, and buying nice dinners for women a is cheaper then what it would cost for one night with a quality escort would cost.
The physical act with escort might be better, but that is not what I am looking for when it comes to dating and sex. I would never date an escort and don't want my women to act like one either, that's the point.
I want the emotional and physical bond... it strengthens the relationship for me. And of course sometimes it not there for you, and the woman accuses you of only being in it for the sex. Which is not true, but how do you know without the sex?
People would say I am wrong, and that's fine. But I like what I like and am just as entitled to look for what I want in a women as she is in what she wants from her man.
Yeah i am against dating unless dating is the goal in itself. Be as up front as possible
There are MANY women nowadays who are more like high-maintenance overly demanding prostitutes that think too highly of themselves and their "value" than they are respectable women.
The sort who dress revealing, they act sluttishly, and they sleep around, etc. These are the ones who typically whine they can't keep a man or only losers/players are interested in them.
With such women it probably IS more intelligent to hire an escort.
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With respectable women the only sort of man who'd consider this, is an idiot.
Maybe he should look somewhere else besides the trash alleys for women
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u A woman is like a violin. In the hands of the concertmaster, she makes beautiful music. In the hands of a clueless oaf, a woman is like paying for the world’s worst escort.
Agree. Women are very boring creatures. They get bored easily and with any guy. Every girl I met is more boring then any guy I met. The only funny girl I know was a famous YouTuber named lea aka snipperwolf. at least she makes me laugh. I don't know if she is boring In real life. But sheeesh some girls are way to quiet and way too boring makes my want to chop my pickle off. I don't know how they became so entitled. It's a complete waste of time and money. But anyways getting back to my point. Yes I prefer to pay an escort ten times more then trying to get a regular girl to sleep with me. Getting a regular girl to sleep with is way too much work. You have to go threw rejection and a lot of work and include a lot of money to even get something or nothing at all. You have to go through so much pain its ridiculous. That's why I'm so forward for the government legalizing prostitution. Once that does happen then a lot of benefits comes to society. Less hungry desperate men and happier men in society. also less rapes and sexual assault. It will benefit men and women both ways. Obviously it will have some down sides but if you see some parts of Europe they have successfully legalized prostitution.
Haha that's funny as hell!! A friend of mine made a similar point. But the topic was different. My friend said... that if paying a person for companionship and/or sexual favors is illegal then why is dating not... your basically doing the same thing... paying for someone else's time in the hope of a sexual conclusion. I kind of agree but I kind of dont. Yes it can be very bad at time's but it can be incredibly good at times too... so it is like i imagine it to be it ALL comes down to personality and personal chemistry with the opposite party. If the chemistry and personality dont mesh together well then the date or the "session" will suck and the same is true in reverse... thats my guess but if it is true then I have had ALL the worst experiences in dating and now its time to try a new approach lol thats my take on it
If his only interest was sex and it was based on money/investment vs how often they get sex then it would be an accurate statement.
If they were looking for a relationship with a good partner (not the majority of women, but the actual good ones) then it would be inaccurate because a good person isn't easily replaceable.
If she pays her own way at first that would also make the statement inaccurate.
So it actually depends on his motivations/intentions, and if she is a good fair person or not. Accurate for some, inaccurate for others.
I don't agree with that. I'm not sure why so few men seem to understand that women are extremely horny creatures who will happily sleep with you for free, as long as you make them feel good.
Women's basic requirements for bangability are extremely easy to meet. Don't look, talk, dress, or smell like a slob. In other words; don't be an actively unpleasant person to interact with. Get good at telling jokes and talking. Be reasonably fit/healthy. As long as you can do those things, women WILL want to fuck you.
If you want a relationship, you'll also need hobbies and personal goals, but that's really it. Women are not complicated.
there is some truth to that not every girl is terrible tho 😅
I think now a days women are taught to be very manipulative and devious with men and they’re becoming more shameless about their bad behavior but ironically see it as “empowering”. there's lots of girls on youtube videos that’ll are snotty and rude and proudly talk about having a 50+ body count like it’s nothing yet complain that they can’t find a guy that wants anything serious with them. Then they always play it off like oh well guys these days just aren’t manly enough and don’t meet my standards 🤦♂️🤣
Dating is about finding the right life partner for most.
If the dating isn't working out to expectations then you adjust expectations or keep dating until you find the right partner.
Paid sex and paid companionship is only good, if that's what you think, until the money runs out.
Hugh Hefner's money never ran out so he had plenty of paid sex and paid companionship... do you have that kind of money? ... just wondering
If the final objective is just sex, then I can't disagree with this. Even so, I know how it feels to be with someone who's with me not for my money, despite things still going south in the end. I doubt escorts can replicate the experience, and that's why I haven't gone for one yet.
Sometimes that's true, there's no shortage of videos online that you can search of women being manipulative, high maintenance, and controlling of their husband. It's pretty obvious to tell who these women are simply by the way they look. They're basically the women to "redpill" a guy after she cheats on him or takes 90% of his stuff. in my opinion, there's nothing wrong with paying for a escort to go on a date with you and have sex if you want to. Just dont be a 🍆head to them.
That guy's first mistake was going into it with sex as the only goal. If you don't want to consider a life with her as a viable option for a future, then dating is a horrible plan.
It's almost like trying to rent a cabin and then buying a timeshare instead.
Escorts don't always have sex, but they are paid dates. Like any other date if there is an attraction they may have sex.
A prostitute is not the same as a escort but the sex is guaranteed with them, a date is not.
Otherwise I disagree with that statement, since guys dating me don't pay for me, I pay for myself and they can pay for themselves.
I can't really even form an opinion on this without saying if someone is thinking this then they have a very low opinion of women. Some of my fondest memories with my wife is when we dated before getting married. Wehad no expectation of each other. When we got serious we talked about our expectations we both agreed no sex, and no kissing until marriage.
If you're only looking for what an escort provides, then that's true. If, however, you're looking for someone who actually cares about you and isn't in it for money, then you want a girlfriend.
My wife never tells me no. I always get at least a handy j if she’s seriously not in the mood.
My wife also likes sports more than I do. She likes fishing. Doesn’t drink so I always have a dd.
She also makes good chili. Let’s see an escort make good chili.
None the less, for most men, I think what he said is probably true. However if you date or marry a horny bitch that can cook and likes sports you come out ahead.
I somewhat agree.
If prostitution was legal dating would be at a all time low. Like super rare.
The only mark against Hookers
Is diseases std HIV etc
Legality
Negative Stigma ( which could go away and be positive fast maybe like 2 years tops)
If sex is the goal, yes. Sex is great and even necessary for my relationships, but there's so much more to it. Sex is easy, finding someone that meshes with you, laughs with you, and supports you is a bit harder and I feel like that's what dating is supposed to vet.
God I'd hope not. If that's a person's viewpoint I don't know why they're even dating. Sex should be the bonus, not the driver in the relationship. And people should lift eachother up, not exploit eachother. That's the difference between a healthy and a toxic relationship. I will concede women and men don't always think along the same lines and that can be a definite source of contention.
It's a perfectly fine and accurate statement IF you're a man who doesn't want a relationship of any kind. Dating, at least for men, is done for one or more of the following reasons:
1) Simple companionship (this applies mostly to much older men) 2) Finding a compatible, longer-term mate, or 3) Hooking up for sex at very little or no expense
Escorts will give you what you want, but it's not cheap if you want a good-looking, clean one. It all depends on what you want and what you're willing to pay for it.
No, not at all. An escort service is a unilateral business exchange, whereby the service needs to be a certain quality or customer satisfaction will. Dating is not a business exchange, and the satisfaction should not be one-sided, nor should the consideration of the other party
“Dating a woman is like paying for the world’s worst escort.”
If your goal is sexual healing or comfort, maybe that is true, but IMHO, the vast majority of men are looking for something more intangible, Love, and ALL the splendid things that that can entail.
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