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Okay, I get the intent to what this yocal is trying to say, but I disagree with how it was said it.
Bottom line dating is costly financially, and women in general are flippant a lot of times with men. So in general I would advise women not to expect or accept a man paying for costly dates if you're not on a level with him that you are willing to commit to a physical relationship.
I for one take women on cheap first dates, its not that I don't make over 100K annual income, but I don't like women that put finical expectations or conditions on sex prior to getting to know me.
With that said there are things I look for in a physical relationship, and buying nice dinners for women a is cheaper then what it would cost for one night with a quality escort would cost.
The physical act with escort might be better, but that is not what I am looking for when it comes to dating and sex. I would never date an escort and don't want my women to act like one either, that's the point.
I want the emotional and physical bond... it strengthens the relationship for me. And of course sometimes it not there for you, and the woman accuses you of only being in it for the sex. Which is not true, but how do you know without the sex?
People would say I am wrong, and that's fine. But I like what I like and am just as entitled to look for what I want in a women as she is in what she wants from her man.
Yeah i am against dating unless dating is the goal in itself. Be as up front as possible
@pastuser its not hot
There are MANY women nowadays who are more like high-maintenance overly demanding prostitutes that think too highly of themselves and their "value" than they are respectable women.
The sort who dress revealing, they act sluttishly, and they sleep around, etc. These are the ones who typically whine they can't keep a man or only losers/players are interested in them.
With such women it probably IS more intelligent to hire an escort.
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With respectable women the only sort of man who'd consider this, is an idiot.
Good point thank you I am just mad I didn't think of that first.
Maybe he should look somewhere else besides the trash alleys for women
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u A woman is like a violin. In the hands of the concertmaster, she makes beautiful music. In the hands of a clueless oaf, a woman is like paying for the world’s worst escort.
Agree. Women are very boring creatures. They get bored easily and with any guy. Every girl I met is more boring then any guy I met. The only funny girl I know was a famous YouTuber named lea aka snipperwolf. at least she makes me laugh. I don't know if she is boring In real life. But sheeesh some girls are way to quiet and way too boring makes my want to chop my pickle off. I don't know how they became so entitled. It's a complete waste of time and money. But anyways getting back to my point. Yes I prefer to pay an escort ten times more then trying to get a regular girl to sleep with me. Getting a regular girl to sleep with is way too much work. You have to go threw rejection and a lot of work and include a lot of money to even get something or nothing at all. You have to go through so much pain its ridiculous. That's why I'm so forward for the government legalizing prostitution. Once that does happen then a lot of benefits comes to society. Less hungry desperate men and happier men in society. also less rapes and sexual assault. It will benefit men and women both ways. Obviously it will have some down sides but if you see some parts of Europe they have successfully legalized prostitution.
@iSlipKnot haha. Thank you
Haha that's funny as hell!! A friend of mine made a similar point. But the topic was different. My friend said... that if paying a person for companionship and/or sexual favors is illegal then why is dating not... your basically doing the same thing... paying for someone else's time in the hope of a sexual conclusion. I kind of agree but I kind of dont. Yes it can be very bad at time's but it can be incredibly good at times too... so it is like i imagine it to be it ALL comes down to personality and personal chemistry with the opposite party. If the chemistry and personality dont mesh together well then the date or the "session" will suck and the same is true in reverse... thats my guess but if it is true then I have had ALL the worst experiences in dating and now its time to try a new approach lol thats my take on it
If his only interest was sex and it was based on money/investment vs how often they get sex then it would be an accurate statement.
If they were looking for a relationship with a good partner (not the majority of women, but the actual good ones) then it would be inaccurate because a good person isn't easily replaceable.
If she pays her own way at first that would also make the statement inaccurate.
So it actually depends on his motivations/intentions, and if she is a good fair person or not. Accurate for some, inaccurate for others.
I don't agree with that. I'm not sure why so few men seem to understand that women are extremely horny creatures who will happily sleep with you for free, as long as you make them feel good.
Women's basic requirements for bangability are extremely easy to meet. Don't look, talk, dress, or smell like a slob. In other words; don't be an actively unpleasant person to interact with. Get good at telling jokes and talking. Be reasonably fit/healthy. As long as you can do those things, women WILL want to fuck you.
If you want a relationship, you'll also need hobbies and personal goals, but that's really it. Women are not complicated.
there is some truth to that not every girl is terrible tho 😅
I think now a days women are taught to be very manipulative and devious with men and they’re becoming more shameless about their bad behavior but ironically see it as “empowering”. there's lots of girls on youtube videos that’ll are snotty and rude and proudly talk about having a 50+ body count like it’s nothing yet complain that they can’t find a guy that wants anything serious with them. Then they always play it off like oh well guys these days just aren’t manly enough and don’t meet my standards 🤦♂️🤣
Dating is about finding the right life partner for most.
If the dating isn't working out to expectations then you adjust expectations or keep dating until you find the right partner.
Paid sex and paid companionship is only good, if that's what you think, until the money runs out.
Hugh Hefner's money never ran out so he had plenty of paid sex and paid companionship... do you have that kind of money? ... just wondering
If the final objective is just sex, then I can't disagree with this. Even so, I know how it feels to be with someone who's with me not for my money, despite things still going south in the end. I doubt escorts can replicate the experience, and that's why I haven't gone for one yet.
Sometimes that's true, there's no shortage of videos online that you can search of women being manipulative, high maintenance, and controlling of their husband. It's pretty obvious to tell who these women are simply by the way they look. They're basically the women to "redpill" a guy after she cheats on him or takes 90% of his stuff. in my opinion, there's nothing wrong with paying for a escort to go on a date with you and have sex if you want to. Just dont be a 🍆head to them.
That guy's first mistake was going into it with sex as the only goal. If you don't want to consider a life with her as a viable option for a future, then dating is a horrible plan.
It's almost like trying to rent a cabin and then buying a timeshare instead.
Escorts don't always have sex, but they are paid dates. Like any other date if there is an attraction they may have sex.
A prostitute is not the same as a escort but the sex is guaranteed with them, a date is not.
Otherwise I disagree with that statement, since guys dating me don't pay for me, I pay for myself and they can pay for themselves.
I can't really even form an opinion on this without saying if someone is thinking this then they have a very low opinion of women. Some of my fondest memories with my wife is when we dated before getting married. Wehad no expectation of each other. When we got serious we talked about our expectations we both agreed no sex, and no kissing until marriage.
If you're only looking for what an escort provides, then that's true. If, however, you're looking for someone who actually cares about you and isn't in it for money, then you want a girlfriend.
thank you @Twalli basically I was saying the same thing @Plinko said... if you are only dating for sex and nothing more then a prostitute or an escort (two separate things) would be faster for sex... but for commitment... then its not. but same deal no matter which route you choose the people have to be in a frame of mind to actually meet, first impressions etc. and make it a good one but if not... well yeah.
My wife never tells me no. I always get at least a handy j if she’s seriously not in the mood.
My wife also likes sports more than I do. She likes fishing. Doesn’t drink so I always have a dd.
She also makes good chili. Let’s see an escort make good chili.
None the less, for most men, I think what he said is probably true. However if you date or marry a horny bitch that can cook and likes sports you come out ahead.
I somewhat agree.
If prostitution was legal dating would be at a all time low. Like super rare.
The only mark against Hookers
Is diseases std HIV etc
Legality
Negative Stigma ( which could go away and be positive fast maybe like 2 years tops)
Yes but you are forgetting one thing slayer... Anyone can have an STD at anytime. The likelihood just goes up depending on how many times someone was exposed (had intercourse with someone) carrying the STDs
@ticklelover2045 you are more likely to get an std with a regular girl then with a prostitute. Prostitutes force guys to use condoms even tho they bang hundreds of guys. But regular almost never use condoms. Which is crazy
If sex is the goal, yes. Sex is great and even necessary for my relationships, but there's so much more to it. Sex is easy, finding someone that meshes with you, laughs with you, and supports you is a bit harder and I feel like that's what dating is supposed to vet.
God I'd hope not. If that's a person's viewpoint I don't know why they're even dating. Sex should be the bonus, not the driver in the relationship. And people should lift eachother up, not exploit eachother. That's the difference between a healthy and a toxic relationship. I will concede women and men don't always think along the same lines and that can be a definite source of contention.
It's a perfectly fine and accurate statement IF you're a man who doesn't want a relationship of any kind. Dating, at least for men, is done for one or more of the following reasons:
1) Simple companionship (this applies mostly to much older men) 2) Finding a compatible, longer-term mate, or 3) Hooking up for sex at very little or no expense
Escorts will give you what you want, but it's not cheap if you want a good-looking, clean one. It all depends on what you want and what you're willing to pay for it.
No, not at all. An escort service is a unilateral business exchange, whereby the service needs to be a certain quality or customer satisfaction will. Dating is not a business exchange, and the satisfaction should not be one-sided, nor should the consideration of the other party
“Dating a woman is like paying for the world’s worst escort.”
If your goal is sexual healing or comfort, maybe that is true, but IMHO, the vast majority of men are looking for something more intangible, Love, and ALL the splendid things that that can entail.
No I wouldn't, an escort is with you for money. A person in a relationship is there because they care about you and want to be with you.
There is a big difference most of the time. I guess in some cases this maybe. Afactual statement but it would depend on the people in the relationship.
I disagree in the sense that it sounds like this person hasn’t dated some he’s friends with first, I’m demisexual if you don’t know what that is look it up, but basically if you have strong feelings and emotions for the person it’s not wrong or a waste of time to be dating them plus money doesn’t always have to be a factor in dating
I think the person who said it should just stick to dating escorts :D
Yes. today we have many dating facilitys, somany websites are available. We can choose anyone in that sites. Dating is trend now no true love in society. Girls now just for sex. Two days before a boy dated and We got a room, It's my first time. He hold me in spoon position his dick touched my butts and hold my breast rand his right hand put my pantie, I wetted always. I just sucked his dick and He try to fuck me but period is camed. A lot of blood spreaded there he smashed my face. I lost my virginity.
There is a joke that girlfriends are like prostitutes on the easy payments plan. And the wife is giving her half of what you got to always be available.
When a guy has no moral standards, is desperate, ignore red flags and go for the wrong kind of woman, chances are high that he will end up with a woman who will make relationships seem like that.
At least an escort won't demand child support.
I would hope it's not part of her business model. Always practice safe sex.
m the answer is no...
I'm not an absolute douchebag that has lead a miserable life for myself, lol
If that's how they feel, may I suggest better escorts? They get the work done and never cause drama. And if a man feels this way, he's clearly unfit for a relationship.
I think that depends on the woman or the man. Some people just don't have mutual attraction or chemistry together. If everybody was attracted to everybody, then everybody would be fucking everybody. What a mess that would be, right?
I don't know what planet some of these men live on... cuckworld or something. Ofc sex is guaranteed if you have a girlfriend smh. But i dont know what its like to be an ugly broke fat wimp so maybe thats not how it works for them?
Fornication is a sin.
@Crazygurl2o3o so you're married having only slept with your husband, or are a virgin? And fyi fornication as written in the Bible isn't as simple as premarital sex. Feel free to do some research.
More nonsense from manchildren trying to fight with women. Real men dont insilt and harass women they pck on someone their own size
HAHA this made me laugh. xD
I feel sad for them. Must be so disappointed lmao
We never had sex before marriage. But being ae to get to know and love my husband so intimately and yet innocently while we were dating is something that we will forever cherish, and something that has only had a positive affect on our relationship.
Completely disagree.
sounds like bitterness or pure laziness.
You know my answer. Although it isn't always literal.
If all you're doing to attract women with your money then yes it will be like that.
Actually yea. Having a 1h session with a top rated good looking prostitute beats any date. For the one you get what you expecf and want and for the other its like a job interview
That’s some top tier incel shit ong. I’d expand more but like… I want my woman, I don’t want glorified whore on my arm. “Escort > girlfriend”? Lmfao k
No. While it is very variable there has been only one date I would have said that about.
If that's all you want out of your partner, you should probably stick to escorts, yea.
I refuse to date girls who won’t split the bill so I don’t think this applies to me. Here in the us most couples split the bill it seems like especially for middle class whites.
My date is not like an escort, a bad one or good one. I date them because I admire them, think they are attractive. But we usually wind up having sex.
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Some.. not all but some women are like that. Thankfully it's mostly not true.
Well, dating is like being double charged for every drink, meal, show, vacation, etc.
Omg that's so mean. I definitely do not agree!!
It’s true. Prostitution is the only honest relationship a man and woman can have.
and you know what else is guaranteed std's lots and lots of fun filled friendly std's like herpes chylmedia syphilis gonorrhea
That must be one of the most stupid statements I have ever heard.
If that's your mindset, you probably shouldn't be with another person at all.
i guess it all depends on the woman & the guy
some people are just not meant to be togther
Lol I'm sure it can be that way with some women but no I don't agree
Wow, that's not a very nice thing to say about women!
But ya, fuck women
if he wanted guaranteed sex then an escort would be a better option...
No, sex is not a guarantee, if I don't want to have sex, I'm not going to because forcing yourself to have sex with someone when you are not in the mood and don't want to is not only unhealthy but is also bad for the relationship...… and that sentiment goes both ways. If you're partner isn't willing and enthusiastic about having sex, then you're not having sex, you're using their body to masturbate.
if all he wants is guaranteed sex then an escort would be a better alternative to a romantic partner.. if that's what he want then he shouldn't be in a relationship.
@Shy_Steve lol there is always a cost, a man could get laid for free too…. It all depend on how low he’s willing to lower is standards …
"If you're partner isn't willing and enthusiastic about having sex, then you're not having sex, you're using their body to masturbate."
just curious what you think here but what if this happens for an extended period of time where she just isn't in the mood for sex? We will say a month or longer?
@Still-alive then no on is having sex for a month or longer... what do you think happens after a baby is born, or the million other things that negatively impact libido and sex drive?
@Still-alive Most women have what is known as a responsive sex drive. Most commonly seen in women, it can be differentiated from spontaneous desire, which is frequently seen in men. Typically for men, desire, meaning the motivation for sex, comes before the physiological response. This simply means most men feel a want for sex mentally before their body is aroused. For women, this looks a little different. The first step in a woman’s path towards sex is physical arousal, which can be followed by the mental desire but doesn’t have to. Alas, in general, it would be ideal if the body and mind are aligned for a great experience and comfort.
ok lets extend it for as long as a year and she's not feeling up for it and she doesn't expand much as to why either? He tries to ask her about why but she keeps saying 'im just not feeling like it.' Is there ever a length of time where maybe there's something up with her not feeling like having sex with her husband here that she maybe not telling? Or is it more 'well i guess no ones having sex for a year?'
@Still-alive then the couple should probably look into what's causing that to happen and how to fix that issue. There should also be a conversation about realistic sexual expectations within the relationship and exploring the possibility of finding a middle ground. Pretty much like addressing any other issue with in the confines of a marriage.
ok fair enough. i do see your point about how it should be enthusiastic always but after awhile it does weigh a bit on ones psyche. they may start feeling like they aren't attractive enough for their partner after a certain point unless she/he communicates her problems well enough to reach a nice mutual understanding. And this goes for both men and women by the way. i've know women to get sexually frustrated in relationships too. definitely goes both ways
@Still-alive oh for sure it does, which is why communication and understanding how your significant others sex drive works and how they are different.
Dating a woman for love is like going to Auschwitz for weight loss
I agree, But it is a bit harsh.
Dam I can't find a girl to help me fix my beach chair 🤣🤣
No if u date smart and not try to force things
That's fucking hilarious. But does have some truth
That depends entirely on who you're dating.
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