How to cope when someone acts like a victim?

[Anonymous]

I have this friend who says she's stuck in this shitty small town and that's the reason she can't get a date in her 40s. She claims she can't find the right guy but she isn't a nice person

[Anonymous]

girllll, i have a similar friend like that lol.

she always acts the victim but she really has bad personality. that's why i don't consider her a friend anymore. she doesn't have a good heart it showed after a year she got comfortable with me. she started bad mouthing others and would even send me screenshots of people she would like to make fun of, etc. she always complains she cannot find a decent man. she is a doctor. she is very controlling and has much self esteem issues that she drops like a bomb on the men she dates. she can't accept her mistakes and gets angry when you answer her question honestly.

anyway, back to your friend, ask her if she doesn't mind moving. maybe she'd find her match somewhere lol. but tbh, guys may like pretty girls but once they know a girl is flirty or psycho/drama queen, they want to run. lol. you can't be honest with that friend. most people like her and my xfriend can't accept truth. they'd just get offended.

[Guy13]

Can’t change them…listen to them or separate yourself from them. You will never be able to Fix that… 🙄, she’s quite happy living her life as it is. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Spiritofn]

Blame batman