You ever hear someone describe their experiences from a victim's perspective, but you know they're really the aggressor?

[Anonymous]

Like they describe experiencing certain kinds of mistreatment, but you can tell from their tone or past conversations that they were actually the ones doing the bad things. But now they pretend to be the victims because they got called out.

[paledreams]

Bro or man. I'm sure this happens every day on the globe somewhere someone whining about someone or something and probably only giving half the story or a biased angle to the recounting of said story lol 😂😆🤣😆

[paledreams]

That's why I'd hate being a detective or a cop or working in law day in day out - what a drainer of a job - sure it can be a engaging job for the curious minded yet the constant "he said she said who said what said" I'd feel like - drained lol 🧠🧠😆 brain

[Asker]

100% facts. I used to work in the legal field. And had to deal with tons of "victims" who were some of the biggest dirtbags ever. Half of them were tweakers looking to game the system for victim compensation paychecks from the state.

[paledreams]

Asker - that's sounds rough - what do you do for a living now? 🧐

[Asker]

Retirement investments. Way better crowd 😂

[paledreams]

Oh groovy : how long you been there and or if I may be so nosey asking a stranger their details lol - how long had you lasted the old job before it burned you out the constant he said she said vice versa said?

[paledreams]

I've gone though like 5-10 jobs and I'm only 30. Many jobs simply burnt me out - and the irony was they weren't always jobs that were anything than low to medium skilled - go figure right? 👍🏻▶️ It did put my guard up often though when I'd wonder "why is this job vacant" suspicious eyes 🧐👀

[Asker]

6 years in this job, 11 years in the other. One county for the first job, four different firms for the second one.

Job hopping is good, if you're staying in the same career field. like, every two years, is the way to go. I've probably worked at 15 different places and I'm 39. And did 11 in one place.

And yeah with those low to medium skill jobs, it's all about using them to get your foot in the door for the high skill jobs. Keep inching your way up, ya know?

[Smashingdoozy]

I watched my birth mother blame me for her abandoning me...

[Jamie05rhs]

Damn

[Smashingdoozy]

@Jamie05rhs yeah this was the first time I met her too (post abandon)

[Asker]

That's even worse than the fake DV nonsense I've seen a million times. I'm sorry that happened to you. She probably had something like BPD like most of the fake victims I've run into.

[Smashingdoozy]

I have BPD she's just a really shitty person

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sorry. 😢

[Gwendoline]

Watching the P Diddy controversy unfold

[Anonymous]

Yes.