Why do violent men likee?

[Lolita234]

This guy pretended to like me for 5 years just to sleep with me get me attached and leave... i feel so traumatized by him.. how could he? He now said we dont fit and he seems to lkke violent girls u know the girls that do drugs and smoke and steal and livve of welfare he lied. Why i am so sick

[kylee2437]

He pretended to like you for 5 years but didn’t consider a relationship with you within the 5 years.. hmmm

[Lolita234]

No he was pretending

[kylee2437]

Pretending to be in a relationship with you?

[Lolita234]

No pretending he cares about me

[kylee2437]

In what way? He didn’t give you a relationship within 5 years.

[Lolita234]

By calling ne by pretending to care

[kylee2437]

You aren’t giving proper answers. Keeping in contact with you doesn’t really show he cares. I have guys all the time ask to hang out with me pretending we are friends but the reality is, is they want me sexually. Of course they are going to keep coming around when I haven’t gave them the chance to hit it yet

[Lolita234]

Yh hut im sick and hurt really hurt im teaumatized

[kylee2437]

You feel traumatized for not getting what you want. Did he ever offer to take you out on a date?

[Lolita234]

I fele teuamatized for meeting him and letting him jbto my life and body knowing he could care less if i live or die.. knowing he dirsrespected me

[Lolita234]

I let him in and now i have to live without him the memories we made meant nothing to him

[kylee2437]

I think you are overreacting a slight bit. I know you feel upset and I’ve had situations feel like it’s the end of the world, but it’s not. Maybe you have Memories and such but how great actually was it , if you didn’t really get what you were looking for within the 5 years? 5 years and he never considered a relationship. In my personal opinion , you do need to take accountability a bit here. 5 years is way too long to wait around for a relationship out of someone

[boggboss]

Meh he simply played you all he wanted was sex and he fed u lies that u ate up I imagine you ignored the red flags that popped up so not really sure what to say

[Lolita234]

He pretended to like me

[boggboss]

Thsts called lying and playing u yes

[Lolita234]

And now what.. whats worse then sharing moment with him hut never seeing him back again

[boggboss]

Understanding he played you and next time look out for the red flags

[Lolita234]

Yh i know but i am hurt.. he just gets to move on woth his life. And i get hurt

[boggboss]

Yes because he was playing you thats how it works he is not hurt because he was lying u didn't stay aware to the situation ignored red flags and when he showed his true self u got hurt its nothing special and happens to many guys and girls

[JohnK123]

I mean that’s bad but he’s not violent... u knew him for five years or else u wouldn’t have let him sleep with u

[Lolita234]

He is... he has a record

[JohnK123]

Well was the record before he slept with u

[Lolita234]

Yes..