Mixed signals what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what to do here, so I’ve been talking to this girl for a month and a half, we’ve met a few times about 4 but she stays over for multiple days because of distance and tells me she enjoys my company and feels safe and comfortable with me and loves spending time with me and all these other things but is seeing another dude at the same time as me and when we’ve talked about it before she tells me that she’s not ready to commit and is enjoying the single life not having to answer to anyone or tell anyone where she is all the time but leaves me on delivered on Snapchat sometimes while her score goes up and I just feel like I’m not important enough to message back while she’s got the app open and it’s a huge turn off for me but I still really like this girl. Any advice?

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+1 y

I should make it clear that she does open my messages eventually but it makes me feel like I’m not important to her

[Glittermay]

I would tell her this. In the most mature way possible like have you in this post. The worst she can do is turn around and say no see you. If you do loose her it's her loss. :) I hope it all works out for the best.

[Zygum]

She is not sincere with you, only bluffing, be away

[slatyb]

Have you asked her out? Then you'll know.

[Asker]

We talked last week and still isn’t ready to commit

[slatyb]

Go on a date is not committing to anything beside someone a date. Stop wasting your time and date other people.

[scott04sa22]

Mixed signals means she’s not interested