Mixed signals, help?

[Anonymous]

When we’re having sex and he’s in me he often holds eye contact but when he’s fingering me he barely looks at me and keeps his eyes closed, is he just bored when taking care of me?

[spartan55]

If there is no problem, you can always create one! You did a solid job here.

[Asker]

I just don’t want him to do anything he doesn’t enjoy and he’s not the type that would tell me if he didn’t.

[spartan55]

All this because his eyes 👀 were closed?

[Asker]

All this because I’m trying to figure out why he feels distant when he’s not in me.

[spartan55]

You don't know that's how he feels! Did he tell you that? Did you talk to him about it? No, you assume you know what he is thinking...🙄 How can you figure it out when you don't even know if it's there.

[Guy13]

He is focusing on you and your pleasure !!

[Guy13]

You are overthinking and are going to destroy the Vibe. I pick-up on that kind of thing. Relax is your best option.

[Asker]

I mean I go with it and haven’t said anything to him, I just don’t want him to do something he doesn’t enjoy too. Is this a normal thing then?

[Guy13]

You are sweet for sure. Guys never…very rarely have that problem… seriously, relax before he starts thinking he is doing wrong from your Vibe…. Good luck with it.

[Anonymous]

Stop overthinking.