My Afghan boyfriend wants me to come to his country, should I go with him? I had come to an Afghan restaurant with my father, and we met there. Due to the conflict, the restaurant was closed, we can't see each other much. Now he's asking me for this, shall I accept it?
Surely you are trolling, no one is seriously this stupid?
A girl willingly going to a country that is the following
A war zone
A Country where people are starving to death
A country where religion has given everyone a chance to murder girls and nothing happen.
you would likely just be sold to some old guy and then killed.
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nope, even if he's the sweetest dude ever dont. even if its for just a trip, dont go. it's practically the same as you taking a trip to isis when it was a thing. you have no rights there and he could totally keep you (or his dad, family, police I don't know) from ever leaving. you could die or become a political prisonner by the taliban. no ones gonna save you either.
plus they're pretty high chances he's downright sexist and when you go there and the more comfortable he's with you the more he will treat you like you'd expect someone from there to treat you basically. he might even beat you or rape you, and keep you from doing the most basic things like talking to any guy ever, just going out in public, and generally having any autonomy at all
unless he's highly westernized and pretty much has the view irish boys have about women, and you can have a chance for him to come back to Ireland, break up
We only know what's shown in the news there. But if it's accurate then I'd avoid. Women aren't treated well. And if he's an idea to keep you as a wife, then you'll be trapped there.
No way. Afghanistan is a place of poverty, just like the African continent. So much so that the older men of the family are trying to get enough money to sell their legs and some of their organs to feed their families for a few weeks. everything went to the black market. Everything is very expensive. inflation is very, very high. It is also not a safe country. The Taliban took over. Every day you see dozens of guns, you hear hundreds of gunshots and exploding bombs. In short, you cannot live there. so don't go there. but years later, if Afghanistan becomes a very smooth and developed country, maybe it can be visited.
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If you think moving from Ireland to Afghanistan is a good idea, you have the common sense of a chicken. Go find a boyfriend that lives in your city, one that you can see in real life. Not some guy you talk to on the computer or phone.
I feel like there's more to this question than I know. Will you be going back? Is it safe? Do you want to?
Isn't it unsafe to visit that country, especially for a girl.
I wouldn't recommend it. Better if he stays in Turkey
Are you really asking a website for advice about moving to a different country?
I'd say get to know him more
Hell no. Stay out of that shithole.
That's up to you if you like it there
Are you retarded?
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just... no.
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