What is the best way to handle a split from a woman dealing with borderline personality disorder and bipolar disorder (found out after the fact)?

[FreedMan]

Background: I dated a lady for a couple of months a year after my divorce and we just weren't compatible (lots of man hating on her part and my inability to not call a spade a spade) and split amicably-ish.

A couple of weeks go by and now it's booty call after booty call from her. Under any other circumstances I would typically just peace out and be fine but my ex is always on the lookout for a reason to reduce my parenting time with my kids and I've heard horror stories of dealing with BPD people when they're faced with rejection (stalking, false police reports, tire slashing). It's not that she's not a bad lay because she goes crazy in the bedroom but it's like playing Russian roulette. The lesson has been learned for the future but I'm in this situation currently and would like some input.

[Anonymous]

Move. Don't tell her where you moved to, change your name. And pray she's not a "sleeping with the enemy" woman version. 🤣

I wish you luck man. All women have a little crazy in them. But the really crazy ones can ruin your life if they become fixated on you. And they won't let up ever.

[Guy13]

See grey stoning. Expect fits and possibly stalking and threats to kill or harm herself to get inside your head

[Guy13]

I want you to consider going down to your local precinct and filing an equivalent of an incident report. Basically, they will create a file with your info., kids info, her name address phone and that kind of thing. Explain you did not know of her condition but since her behavior has been highly sporadic. You give them kids numbers to in case they call Police can connect. WHEN YOU GO: have all this data on one piece of Paper as they don't have time for your Drama. Share your Story and express concern for Family welfare. Good luck with all this...

[FreedMan]

They're well aware. I handle their IT needs. They can't really do much until/if she decides to get the ball rolling on harassing me. She may just fuck off and that's what I'm hoping for.

[Anonymous]

So you used her just for sex?

If so, you are a lowlife and don't deserve any woman.

[FreedMan]

Did you read my post at all?

[FreedMan]

And to clarify for others reading this... the booty calls are FROM her. She calls me. We actually rarely had sex when we were together because I was getting weird vibes. The issue is I'm concerned with cutting her off from booty calls (which as I research BPD is apparently vary common for them to be EXTREMELY promiscuous) is going to have an impact on my ability to see my children from my past marriage because men are not treated overly well in family court and a false accusation is all it takes.

[SocialEngineering]

A man isn't entitled to a womans body, just because two people sleep together out of lust doesn't mean she's entitled to a relationship.

[SocialEngineering]

Had an ex with these problems bust down my front door. If you're worried about it, talk to the person. If you get threats, or something happens PRODUCE evidence as your number one priority. Then get a restraining order if you must.

[Avicenna]

I once had a girlfriend with BPD. You dodged a bullet by getting out unscathed.

[In_Trance]

Say goodbye walk away block all contact and never go back

[maximumpower]

Just GO.
Don't go back - don't even look back.