Do you have a partner who seems to have split personality disorder?

[Anonymous]

I feel like my boyfriend does when he's drunk. He's much more freer and naughty but when he's sober it's just meh... he's so vanilla. I call him Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde because of the switch in personality when he's drunk to when he's sober.

And now he's not getting drunk anymore so he's all vanilla now which sucks. I know I shouldn't be supporting his drinking habit but he's just free and more open drunk.

Updates

+1 y

I don't want him to be a drunk and he's not an alcoholic. He just drinks from time to time and gets drunk sometimes and when he does he's much more fun but I would like for him to be that way with me sober. I don't want him to have to drink to be that way with me.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. What you describe does not come close to multiple personality/dissociative personality disorder, which is exceedingly rare!

2. So he needs a little bit of social lubricant to let down his inhibitions! It may be time for you to introduce a game into the bedtime activities:

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/ sexual-health/a54411-need- some-excitement-in-the- bedroom-are-you-willing-to- take-a

[Asker]

1. I said seems to not that he actually does. I feel like he is two separate people hence the Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde reference.

2. And ok thanks so much!

[OlderAndWiser]

If you read the myTake I cited, it presents an interesting and fun way to address inhibitions.

[Asker]

It just takes me to the girls ask guys site

[OlderAndWiser]

Need some excitement in the bedroom? Are you willing to take a challenge? ↗

[OlderAndWiser]

I hope that works.

[Asker]

Yes thank you!

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Asker]

You're welcome!

[AllAloneInTheWorld]

That sounds more like it is the alcohol.

[Gent207-2]

He's an alcoholic not someone from Split

[Asker]

He's not a alchy. He wouldn't have been able to quit if he was.

[Gent207-2]

Correction
You have the problem, you're almost as bad as that girl that convinced her suicidal boyfriend to unalive himself, so she can play the mournful widow.
Seriously get a reality check - your BFs health is worth more than you.

[Asker]

I mean you're right. I don't want him to drink. But I just want him to be Mr. Hyde sober sometimes.

[Gent207-2]

Then talk to him - help him get out of his shell.
OR move on

[Asker]

Ok I can do that.

[LazerBean]

Nope.

[In_Trance]

No i don't