Did you ever meet someone and wish they weren’t married because they seem perfect for you?

[Anonymous]

I met someone like that at a conference yesterday. Makes me really sad that some other guy gets her instead of me. She’s got this amazing New Zealand accent …. Works for a very conservative news outlet so is passionate about a lot of the same things I am… has a really great personality … really pretty… etc… it looks like this guy is an American who went to work in their New Zealand office then the positions were moved here and she moved to meep working there and marry him. I’m really quite jealous and wish I had this guys life situation … 😔

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[AlphaMale1]

I could write a book on this topic. Here is the short of it...
Everything on this planet vibrates at a given frequency. Even rocks. Scientists have learned that when two people are attracted to each other instantly it is because their natural frequency vibrates in a close range. However, when you meet someone you want to get away from as soon as possible it is because both of your body frequencies are way off, far apart. Most people we meet are somewhere in the middle.

I have learned to be sensitive of this. When I am talking to a woman for the first time, like a cashier or a chance encounter on a website, I drop my guard and take a chance. If she is not available, I bounce. If she is available I stay with her to see where it may go.

The lady you are interested in is not available. Walk away. You could meet her man and he could have a jealous side. And do you really want a woman who is taken then leaves him for you? Consider she could very likely do the same to you. And if you go into a fit of rage you could end up doing time behind bars. The world has countless available women who seek a partner. Keep looking. When you find one that works for the both of you then treat her like she is very special. Because she probably is.

[NathanDavis]

nah... not like that

first of, that's very selfish

second, that's idealization... I don't really know that person well, I am just creating a fantasy out of first impressions, lol

[jennifer_bloom]

Not in real life, in my dream, I fell in love with 2 doctors but in real life I’m interested in neither one of them,

[slatyb]

Of course. That’s life,

[In_Trance]

No I have not.