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I have met many men that make me regret being married. Often time I imagine what my life would be like with them instead of my husband.
It happens, sadly more than we like to think it does , there will always be someone more attractive or appealing. than your partner is to you , and vice versa , The hard part is to not act on it , understand your husband chose you the same way he wants you to choose him. Marriage and relationships are a choice , you are choosing that person the same way you want them to choose you , if you can’t choose your partner , than sadly you are a selfish person that only really cares about yourself and you will more than likely suffer the consequences of your actions. How would you feel if your husband chose another girl over you or screwing another girl behind your back? Love only grows when 2 people choose each other and make each other their top priority , Love doesn’t come from being selfish and only wanting things to go your way. When I am in a
Committed relationship with a girl , she becomes my top priority over everyone else , hoping she makes me hers , if I couldn’t avoid temptations for her , than I don’t deserve her period , because I would be a selfish piece of shit that wants my cake and wants to eat it to. We can all easily be selfish , the key to a long lasting happy loving relationship with someone is to learn how to remove selfishness from within yourself the same way you want your partner doing for you. If you decide to cheat or have an affair , understand you dug your own grave and you better hope that new guy takes you by his side , cuz if he doesn’t? You will end up with no one period. Most guys’ that screw married women , don’t commit to them , they just use them for sex , they will tell her things she wants to hear but the truth is he won’t trust her what so ever , because she is cheating on her husband with him , he would be stupid to commit to a girl like that , because it would just be a matter of time before she cheats on him as well. People that cheat are selfish people that shouldn’t be in relationships with anyone because they only care about what they feel is best for themselves , they do not know how to love someone else, they just know how to use people.
Yours is not an uncommon case
. In my early 30's I saw the same girl, over a period of several years where I shopped, I saw and talked with her almost daily. Very cute, nice, personable.
Found that she was 'engaged' to a guy that worked there, that I thought was a real horses-ass, and wondered WHY she ever got engaged to him?
At one point in our conversation, she asked if I was ever involved/committed to a person, but later found someone she liked much better, ... and what would I do?
I, in turn, asked if she was in that predicament, and she commented, "Well, I have always thought that YOU were awfully nice"
I was thunderstruck, and would have taken her out in a heart beat.
I think that happens to all of us at some point, and can only suggest you proceed carefully with your current relationship.
It is difficult to advise you as this is a very delicate matter, and THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE.
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This is called hypergamy, and it's because the second women get the man they want they are going to start to devalue him.
It's literally a nightmare to know women are like this.
If you'd get the next guy you'd start looking for the next upgrade.
It's a path of absolute and utter lifelong misery because you'll never be happy with what you have.
Maybe knowing this in very clear certain terms you could start to refocus on being grateful for your blessings of another human being dedicated to loving you instead of starting the steps of ruining your relationship and messing up both of your lives.
Just a thought, but... maybe if you had married one of those other guys, and then met your husband, you would feel the same way.
Maybe there are always going to be guys out there who make you wonder, "What if?"
Do you think you'd have fewer regrets if you were married to someone else?
Plenty of videos online showing women in their 30s that had those thoughts and after divorce they realize they are not a prize, not desired by any good quality men, and messed up the rest of their lives.
Have a good laugh at them people, they deserve it.
No, but I exercise GOOD BOUNDARIES with other women. It sounds like you spend a little too much time around all of these other men and your boundaries suck.
You just described why I'm in an open relationship. My partner and I are primary, and we love one another, but we know you can desire more than one person at a time.
I've occasionally met a person like that, but haven't regretted by choice to marry who I did.
But didn’t you get married because he was “the one”? What made you want to marry your husband?
No. Never met another Mrs Right. Plenty of Mrs. Right Now that I never pursued
I have had the “I wonder what things would have been like if!” But not enough to cheat or divorce.
right after I got married I met a bunch of women and it seemed they all were interested in me. It was strange. But I never regretted marrying my wife.
thats a bit harsh on your husband how come u stay with him if you dont like him?
u no, I'm not a douchebag like that
I’m lucky, I didn’t get married 💃
do you cheat on your husband?
This is such an American female question.
Nope
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