Was I being rude?

[Anonymous]

I asked my coworker (Mia) out and we've been on two dates. Each date was 3-4 hours long and we had a great time. She shared a lot about herself so I got carried away and said I'd like to meet her family.

Long story short, at the end of the 2nd date, I told Mia that I was interested in another girl and that the two of us should stop meeting. Mia was upset at this and asked why I hadn't told her about the other girl before and why I only told her this during the end of the 2nd date. She walked off and hasn't spoken to me after this, we're both 26 and it's really awkward at work.

[Guy13]

Sort of...

[Guy13]

At least you were straight up but it was unfortunate...

[Asker]

Was I rude enough for her to be angry at me?
She asked why I spoke about wanting to meet her family if I was going to say this.

[Guy13]

It was not smart and controlling one's tongue is pretty much the "life secret". Unfortunate is all I can say !!! Rude but not deliberately hateful SOB kind of rude.

[In_Trance]

you're an idiot

[Asker]

Huh? Why?

[In_Trance]

Why would you ever tell her that you're interested in another girl? Are you dumb?

[Asker]

I was only on 2 dates with her. I didn't want to keep leading her on, what should I have said?