Women, Would You Pursue A Relationship With A Man Who Has Commitment Issues?

[fonduegirl]

as in the lines of "i can't do it, i can't picture myself w the same person for years" and not "im sorry i fucked your friend behind your back" kind of commitment issues, because in the latter's case, anyone would be foolish to pursue

[AmandaYVR]

Not all relationships have to be forever. Sometimes it's nice just to spend some time together.

It would depend on many other factors, how they are, think, etc.

Many men are wary of commitment. And many just flat out refuse to do it; especially if they did once and it went badly and they now justify aloofness so that they won't get hurt again; or it was recent, they want their freedom for now. Women can do these too. Sometimes they will date one girl, but only if it's no pressure. What does that mean? They want easy sex, but no emotional burden? There are lots of scenarios. And people (especially men) have many ways to sugarcoat and pussyfoot around the fact that they don't want any responsibility, but do want the perks of a partner p/t.

Not committing is one thing. Openly saying they are going to date as many other people as they want (or sneaking around and doing this on the sly), at the same time... no, if I wanted a relationship with them, that wouldn't be enough. If I didn't want a relationship with them, and knew them well as a colleague or friend, well then their lack of commitment doesn't matter. But when one wants it, and one doesn't, why bother.

[BlueScorpio]

Any woman who wants to take on "I can fix him" projects, is just signing up to waste her own time while dealing with months or years worth of pain by putting up with that bs. I can waste time by myself. There are just somethings a person has to change and grow by doing it alone.

[Rebel_Queen]

I wouldn't, I want to be with someone who can commit to me, and only me. I want that someone special to want just me, as in if we go out into public, no other girls catch his eye besides me. This might be unrealistic but this is just how I see myself a few years into my upper teens/my early 20s

[Subarugirl]

Absolutely not. If he’s not sure, then he can try again once he figure outs what he wants

[LazerBean]

No, that doesn't make sense.

[Monica1984_]

I wouldn’t pursue anyone with this issue.