Girlfriend who’s selfish in bed?

[jshmoe]

I’ve been dating a girl for over a year and she’s getting more selfish as time goes on. She wants it every time I come over. Which is about 2-4 times a week. One big problem is she is only focused on her pleasures. I do all the work and We only do the positions she likes. She doesn’t like to put herself in a position where she’s doing any work, I usually do it all. I’ve talked with her about a compromise on not doing those too much like once a week or so but it usually ends up being months and usually only for a small amount of time because I put up a huge deal…

Does anyone have any advise? Comments or experiences also. I would rather work through it, but Tbh I’m at a point where I’d rather walk away.

We’re great with each other on other aspects like she helps me with my personal/career stuff and vice versa.

[dustybiker]

You are adults. You have to be able to talk to each other. Kindly remind her there are two halves of a relationship. Ask her what things she’s willing to do to make you happy too. Keep any strong reactions out of it. It’s supposed to be fun not frustrating.

[jshmoe]

thanks for the response! I’m not the typical type to have a strong reaction without talking about it or for no reason. Only reason i’m upset now Is I talked about it yesterday and she didn’t even consider it to be important even when I said it was multiple times…

[dustybiker]

Be gentle. Remind her. Sounds like she just doesn’t understand how much it means to you. In her mind you might just be a guy and getting some so assuming you think it doesn’t matter.

[jshmoe]

Thank you! That’s very true and makes total sense

[dustybiker]

You are welcome. Good luck with this. 😎

[dustybiker]

Thanks for the mhg.

[jshmoe]

You’re welcome lol

[mandyfire98]

Just sit her down and talk again about it. Even if you think she'll get her feelings hurt. Just explain to her how it makes you feel. If it's still an issue than it means you aren't sexually compatible.

[chicosuave]

Just bring another girl and have a threesome. But out all you're attention on the new girl and then you're girl you like her more cuz she does whatever you want 😉

[Berethor]

It's not uncommon, men act, women are trope. :)

[landingout2]

she is a waste of time