I wanted to date with a guy who dated earlier with my bestie, I asked my bestie and she did not want me to?

[Anonymous]

so i did not go. why does she not want me to date him? she did not want him.

[Guy13]

She probably does not like the idea of sharing with her friend. She may still like him and the sight of you two together may be too much? The fact that he will be talking about her and comparing you too... and you would know intimate detail about their relationship. Do these things make sense?

Did you ask her about it at all SINCE you did not go? There is no risk for her now so she should be honest...

[slatyb]

Good question. Maybe because if you date him, she will have to see him.

[LazerBean]

You need to figure out why she doesn't want you to. Either there's something wrong with him, or she's just being dumb.

[Changiis07]

Maybe she did like him

[Asker]

no she dumped him

[Changiis07]

Well it would be awkward dating a friends ex

[Asker]

is she jealous?

[Changiis07]

more like true real friends don't date friends exe's

[Asker]

but I told her that I am inlove with him
and said as an joke I am going to marry him and he said nothing

[Changiis07]

Well then that's up to you to decide then, it could ruin the friendship

[Avicenna]

Only she knows- ask her