Why when your girlfriend doesn't like someone you're not supposed to talk to them? Is that normal, I see a lot of that at work?

[poneglyphs]

Do most couples do in real life?

[NathanDavis]

it can happen...

to me, it is about the reasons why they won't like that person... there's good reasons, valid reasons, fair reasons... sometimes they're no so good reasons

it is something you can talk about and then solve it, compromise if needed

so, it all goes down to the details and the specific circumstances, the same solution will not apply to all cases

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay I was just wondering because I know a lot of couples who don't talk to certain people at work. It just boggles my mind

[NathanDavis]

well, maybe they don't like them either...

or they just don't really need to talk to them anyway, lol

[poneglyphs]

I just think that it's the girlfriend that has problems with others 😅😅😅

[NathanDavis]

do you think or do you assume?

[poneglyphs]

A bit of both from what I see theirs a lot of drama between the women at my job

[Anonymous]

I’d respect your girlfriend. Put the shoe on the other end. What if your girlfriend was talking a lot to a guy at work? You’d be ok with that? If yes then you are probably ok with getting cheated on, cus that guy will fuck your girlfriend in a hot minute. All it takes is a bad argument at home and your girlfriend will want someone to talk to. Homie at work will be happy to oblige her and her pussy.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really is that why girls get super jealous of their boyfriend talking to other girls?

[Anonymous]

Not true. Friendships are lines that should never be crossed.

[poneglyphs]

Hmm really why not?

[slatyb]

That’s unhealthy and controlling. It would be a dealbreaker for me.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really?

[exitseven]

It happens a lot. My wife never liked my friends and it was a big source of friction in our relationship.

[RealMarek]

It can happen. My ex basically sabotaged a lot of my friendships or tried to.

[poneglyphs]

Really how did that happen

[RealMarek]

Well, say I had a friend from work or something and wanted to invite him over. She would either complain about it or if he (and his wife if he was married) did meet us she would act like a freak and make things awkward. Basically a mix of whining and bad behavior until it just wasn’t worth it. See, this is why I say it’s better being single than being with the wrong person. And don’t think that it would be worth it just so you can have sex, because the wrong person can ruin that too.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah I can see why also a bad relationship can make you be salty about other things

[RealMarek]

Yeah, but falling into bitterness is a trap. It is important to value what good things one has and move forward.

[maximumpower]

Some boyfriend/gfs try this.
Those that tried it with me were gone in short order.

[Fuentes]

If you like being controlled.

[poneglyphs]

So, why do sime women do that?

[Fuentes]

To be on control some people are controlling and childishn

[poneglyphs]

Oh, lol

[In_Trance]

toxic femininity