Boyfriend left me for his babymother now he's asking for a second chance?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend left me for his babymother he told me it was so he wouldn't get put on child support and she threatened to keep there child away from him he said he never wanted to be with her and he just wasn't thinking he told me he would just contact his babymothers mother in order to get his child he has been begging for a second chance promising not to do what he did ever again before he broke up with me we were working on having a child of our own we lived together and he always tells me how he plans on marrying me soon I took him back will he go back to her again? He claims to not have feelings for her and will go to cout for custody I don't understand why he didn't just go to court and get joint custody instead of ending our relationship

[Anonymous]

No no no no noooo girl lol do not mess with a man who’s still dealing with his baby mama and they have a small child! No good comes from that ever. He left you to go back to her? This will be a pattern and you’ll get hurt over and over run far away.

[Opinion Owner]

And don’t fall for all the words! Words are just words to keep you around don’t do it.

[Anonymous]

Lol he sounds like a major POS. You should have walked after he left you the first time. His ex is going to use that kid against him, which is going to mess things up between both of you because you will be fighting about her. He’s going to jump when she says jump. If you’re serious about this then you advice him to go to the courts, put something in writing cause she will make both of your lives miserable. Otherwise I’d just walk.

[Guy13]

He should be able to have both

[Pterodon]

Shame on you