My boyfriend pretty much cheated on me and now he wants a second chance?

[Anonymous]

So he admitted that he sent an inappropriate video to an old video and she sent one back, he also admitted that he said some things that he now regrets and showed me some messages where he was apologizing to the girl and telling her that should’ve never happened because he doesn’t want to lose me... that happened two weeks ago and he just told me about it. I texted the girl just to see if she had different text messages to the ones he showed me and she did but she didn’t have the ones where he was flirting only the ones where he was telling her to forget about everything. He wants me to give him a second chance but im just really hurt and if i give him a second chance i dont want him to do something even worse.

[appleracks]

I'd leave sorry but its too much to forgive I don't care if he's actually sorry and he actually cut off the side piece I dont care about nothing the only thing keeps haunting me is the cheating part and I can't even get to the text messaging part because I already dont forgive that you cheated there's someone out there better that doesn't cheat.

[Games_]

I just saw your age and just read the question.

Dont give him a 2nd chance, guys that age aren't settling.

[Games_]

The fact the person falls to temptations so easily isn't even a good sign to begin with. Prolly should break it before he makes another mistake

[Asker]

You are so right, thank you so much!

[Games_]

Yeah, u have to play it smarter when ur a girl. U can't just be easily trusting guys like that.

[WarningWarning]

How long have y'all been together?

[Asker]

7 months

[WarningWarning]

So 7 mths. How close are yall? Do y'all plan the future? Have y'all talked about long term?

[Asker]

We are really close and yes we have

[WarningWarning]

Aww i am so sorry you are going through this. I know its hard. If he is truly sorry, and you think eventually you could forgive him, you could give him some boundaries and ask him to share where he is no matter what... you might be able to work it out

[Asker]

Thank u so much!

[Nachowedgie]

Don't give him a second chance