Why though? Intimacy is a huge part in that relationship, why wait till you sign a contract to find out they arnt satisfying your needs. Are you waiting to find out anything else until marriage? If she can cook, has debt, has a job, been married 3 times previously, if she's religious, farts excessively in her sleep? These are reason why marriages dont last. Not to mention, you will have no experience, women dont exactly want to tell a guy how to please her, its why women fake climax which to me is huge failure of fulfillment of duties.
Ultimately you do you, but I just would hate for you to have wasted all those years thinking its some huge thing as if a girl will be bound to you saving it for them, when its not. Have you ever been so hyped up about a toy when you were little, but then discover its wasn't really how you thought it would be... Yeah that somes it up.
That is an interesting reply. Not exactly what the question was about, but that's fine.
Good Will Hunting has an improvised line by Robin Williams about her wife farting in her sleep. Hilarious, but let's get back to the question.
The reason I posed the question is that the answers aren't as linear as you might think. (Before you think otherwise, I am not discrediting your points).
Let's use an example to show this. The reason for it is religious. The person, male or female, is taught no sex until marriage. Let's set that in stone.
What that means can vary wildly. There can be intimacy with outer course or the couple never seeing eachother naked until their wedding night.
I would date a girl who wasn’t a virgin but I wouldn’t date a girl who is “easily available..”
I would only date a girl I felt a genuine connection with. And I would date a girl who is feminine, ladylike and someone who tries to be the best version of herself.
I mean I would date a non virgin if she had sex with a former boyfriend who is had a long term relationship with, but I would be turned off by a girl who has had casual sex in the past.
Is that a standard you hold yourself to? Or have you only had sex within a relationship? I'm only asking to insert the topic of double standards and shaming.
Simply respect my choice and don't pressure me or make me uncomfortable in any way if happen to do so unintentionally just stop and change the topic laughing it if makes it weirder.
OK, Male Anonymous. If you date to marry, and would only date a virgin, what are your dating rules before marriage? What is acceptable and what is not? This may seem obvious to you, but it really is not.
(And, this is outside the purview of the question, how many girls have you dated to marry that did not end in marriage? Is it cool to ask that?)
I try to date fellow virgins. So I would date a woman if I didn't know if she was one or not. But once I find out she is not I don't continue to date her.
