What does my boyfriend want from me?

[Anonymous]

He said he doesn’t want me to be disappointed if he doesn’t marry me. His last marriage was awful and doesn’t want to do it again. He kinda just wants to have fun. Though he said he would marry me if I forced him too.

[devilish-cutie]

Well if he wants a serious exclusive relationship and maybe one day kids, than there isn't much to worry. If you really want marriage you may tell him that just cause he had a bad experience doesn't mean it would be the same with you and that its not fair to you that he would not have more faith in 2 of you and give you a chance. Also, consider how long you guys are together, if it hasn't been that long, it still have time to change his mind. He is probably just afraid the past will repeat itself.

[LazerBean]

She wants all the benefits of a marriage relationship, but without any of the legal commitment.

[Guy13]

It seems like he is using it as an excuse to keep from being totally committed. Not even move-in together... start a life together... or anything like that?

[Asker]

Whenever I bring clothes over to his house and leave them there he jokes that I’m moving. Then he says he’ll make room for my stuff. Though we never discussed living together. We’ve been getting closer. He wants to see me move and loves when I spend the night.

[Guy13]

He sounds a little to indecisive for me.