How do I stop worrying about him? We had sex and now he’s distant and doesn’t know what he wants with me. We dated for a month. How can I get over it?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

you need to ask him what is going on so you can have at least some closure

for the future, wait at least 6 months of being officially boyfriend and girlfriend (met parents, friends, etc) before having sex to avoid such things happening again.

[Guy13]

There is nothing you can do but live through your mistake. Time will pass and perspective will change.

[Asker]

Yeah he seemed to think it went too fast the night we got intimate and now isn’t sure where we are at.

[Guy13]

Did you push sex or him? Be honest as it matters..

[Asker]

No no one pushed it. It naturally happened as we were both turned on.
A week before we got together he told me he wanted things to progress sexually. So maybe I felt I had to do something sexual when I went over to his place.

[Guy13]

I see... no wonder this is painful for you. You seem sweet. Hopefully, he chooses wisely !!

[Asker]

I feel horrible. And he’s being weird and saying he’s not sure what he wants with me now.

[Guy13]

Yikes !!! SORRY !! Just hang out and leave him alone no matter how hard it is. No contact but do not block. Look but don't acknowledge...

[Asker]

He told me he’d text me today and that he’d still want to get together on Wednesday.

[Guy13]

Well, good luck !!!

[Anonymous]

Make better choices before putting out.

The guy wanted ass then got it easily and bailed.

Typical.

[Asker]

Um we dated for over a month. And he took me on tons of dates before I had sex with him. If he just wanted sex he would have bailed much sooner.

[Opinion Owner]

That is not even close to true.
A guy who wants a specific pussy will indeed play the game until he gets it.

[Anonymous]

You just got used, accept it and move on.