Was it nice to offer my boyfriend rent free at my place until he finds a job?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I mean it's nice, but I always warn people not to do that. I've seen it countless times where they invite someone in their apartment or house the guy just says "it'll just be one week" and one week turns into a month. And they keep making up excuses as why they can't get a job and then they tell them to leave they refuse. And when they try to kick them out they get in trouble because that person wasn't Authorized to live in that apartment and it's just a mess. I know you love him and you won't listen to my warnin, so I won't tell you not to do it, but I am just giving you a heads up. That's all. I hope it works out.

[jshm2]

No. It was the stupidest thing you could have done for free.

He's only your boyfriend, not your brother or husband. When you breakup, you're still going to have to live with him for around 3-6 months until you get an eviction notice.

Don't be a dumbass, draw up a tenancy agreement with your terms and conditions. Even if it's for a few bucks a month. People change when it comes to money, hence why the importance to have contracts around money.

[Asker]

he's only staying temporarily until he finds a job and place he's not staying permanently

[Blackcosmo]

Yes that's very kind of you but people who care about each other would naturally do it.

[AviatorTom]

Very nice. Just make sure he doesn't take advantage of you and becomes a homebody who doesn't look for a job. And give him chores to do around the house... like take out the trash, wash the dishes, etc.

[slatyb]

Very nice. Is he actively looking for a job? There are a lot of jobs open.

[Asker]

Yes in engineering he is I'm

[ArtemisSilver]

Yes, it's more than even family has ever done for me so I think that qualifies as nice.

[Asker]

I couldn't just leave him and he was using a lot of his savings paying rent at his current place

[ArtemisSilver]

Well good job being an actual friend. Not much of that going around these days.

[Asker]

You mean there isn't much good people

[ArtemisSilver]

Yep. Most people's "friends" wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire 🔥🔥

[Asker]

Most people are fake

[Hardworkingguy]

I believe that there shouldn't always give everything to the person you love it must be a gift and text situation and your lend yourself into a situation where you might be taken advantage of

[FilmGuy93]

It was a nice thing to do. Probably a foolish thing to do, but it was also nice.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, just make sure he doesn't turn into a leech that ends up taking advantage of you.

[Asker]

He will be out the door

[Wise4myage]

Smart.

[Asker]

he's an engineer so I hope he will be productive about it

[genericname85]

Nice but more risky than nice in my opinion.

[TheBigGuy9]

I don’t know his history. I cannot make that call. Who is he?

[Shamalien]

It’s a nice gesture, but I’ve seen men really take advantage of this…

[goodgirlsteven]

Nope dumb move! he's going to take advantage! just you wait an see

[maximumpower]

Yes.
Make sure there's an "end date" to your generosity, tho.

[spartan55]

Lol... yeah watch how fast he gets a job.

[Cheerfull009]

Yes, you are in love with him

[SlothySlob]

I'd say so.

[Danny_dan92]

No shit.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nice gesture.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Nope