Im almost 24 but I like a guy who's 21. Is that okay?

[Paulalove98]

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+1 y

By almost 24, my birthday is the end of October and he just turned 21 in June.

[RosieMelts]

Depending on what you prefer out of any short term / long term relationship, and how you both interact with each other.

I don’t really see any red flags. Some guys at his age dig the girls in their mid twenties because they seem and usually can be more emotionally stable and physically voluptuous.

[DenizLikesTennis]

No. You both should be born simultaneously. The birth time should'vebeen meticulous, same day, same hospital, same school, same street, same appartement, similar looking parents, same face structure, same eye color, same height, same shirt color, same trousers, same car... same.

Alrighty jokes aside ;P yes it is fine and cool. I wish you both good luck 😊 go for it

[GoodManDave]

Yes, the age thing is not as much an issue with 24 and 21 as opposed to 18 and 15. It’s more about experiences and if they are a big thing to you. 24 and 21 might be a world of difference to some people. But others, not so much. But no, it’s not particularly “weird” or anything.

[Kylal412]

Well you both are over 18 so legally yes. It all comes done to what you both are comfortable with age should not be an issue if you want to be with someone younger. But also realize men don’t mature as fast as women do so you have to be good with their personality now and going forward.

[Pinay_ako]

I’m 39… Can I like a guy younger than me? 😑

[Still-alive]

I think that’s allowed ;)

[BloodCursedDeviant]

That's being a couger but yes.

[Still-alive]

@BloodCursedDeviant anything wrong with that?

[BloodCursedDeviant]

No, simp.

[Still-alive]

@BloodCursedDeviant lol

[fonduegirl]

@Still-alive why is women liking younger men such a taboo? Xx

[Pinay_ako]

@anon1903 I don't know why. 😂 it shouldn’t be. I think it’s amazing

[fonduegirl]

Damn right it is

[Pinay_ako]

@anon1903 yea like if they’re allowed to like younger women. Younger men should be allowed to like older women!

[fonduegirl]

Yeah! Societal double standards need to be changed!

[Pinay_ako]

@anon1903 don’t wait! Just do it, fuck society!

[fonduegirl]

That's the spirit

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t see why not. Age gaps are less frowned upon if both parties are over 21.

[EmmaMary]

What on earth makes you think that it's not okay? 🤔

[fonduegirl]

Women dating younger men is still a taboo, hon

[EmmaMary]

@anon1903

I guess that might depend on where you live in the world.

Here in the UK to my own understanding, this is certainly becoming more and more common.

I certainly don't think that it's looked down upon as such.

[fonduegirl]

I see! I often hear cougar stories from my mom. Telling her friends. They definitely hate the older women-younger men combo for some reason.

[dustybiker]

Two minds that are no longer immature. Yes.

[jshm2]

No, you could be shot as a pedo!

Only kidding, you'll just be shot with a sambuca

[SushiSxnpai]

Not that big of an age gap. I’d say it’s fine.

[Greergr]

He is 21, not 18, I think that a 24 and 21-year-old is a completely acceptable age gap.

[ce-rose]

you are both legal adults who can make their own choices in life. completely fine

[Light909090]

No not okay your Pure evil
I’m just kidding It’s all good
Your fine like him all you want go for him

[PJH359]

Yes why not? Only a three year difference. Seems like kind of a dumb question.

[ArrowheadSW]

That's cool. Not that big of an age difference.

[FallonSamuels]

Yes it’s absolutely fine. I also tend to like guys three years younger than me haha

[Marshymallow]

I mean it’s legal… unless he’s super immature and you don’t think you’d work out.

[Light909090]

If she doesn’t Think she’d workout she needs to hit them Weights

[exitseven]

yes, if it's okay with you and if its okay to him then there is no problem.

[fonduegirl]

Totally. That's the most acceptable age gap in my opinion.

[ArtemisSilver]

No that's terrible. Pay me 20 bucks and I'll pray for you and then it will be fine. 👍

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it's a good age for you and him, no need to worry

[bowenw]

It's okay. It's not much of a difference in the grand scheme of things.

[jamesgoldman]

Yes, my exes were 18 when I was 16 but it was all good

[Fuentes]

Lol that's basically you being a freshman liking a senior or junior, Still the same Era really

[Mangospacho]

He’s an adult. You’re an adult. I doubt your age or his age will be an issue.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

3 year difference is nothing. You were wearing diapers when he was born.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Loving ain’t wrong. G-d is the Love. The Love is G-d.

[Sarahshahy]

If both of you have same view and outlook, why not :) It depends how compatible you are

[hazelsadie]

i would say that age gap isn’t bad at all. even if other people says it’s too big of a gap, you can love who you want

[panamared1]

you are both adults, why do you need our approval

[NathanDavis]

I prefer even numbers...

[Kaneki05]

Of course nothing is wrong with that.

[Agape93]

Yeah. You're both adults.

[YoHoeRose]

Perfectly fine. Both of you are grown

[BlueScorpio]

Yes, you're both in your 20s so it's fine.

[Emilyis]

I think all men would love to date older women.

[DannyUk2017]

Age is just a Number... 😉

[Ga-girl]

Yah, do what you want...

[AndrésC64]

You're essentially the same age.

[20yearsolder]

Yep, it's perfectly fine

[Kreneman]

That is totally fine.

[RavVid]

Why not? If he is ok with it there are no problems

[darkoflights]

it's just 3 years dont mind it

[MikeInHawaii]

Why would you even have to ask?

[sheikalana]

It's alright.

[XXblack88]

Yes. As long as he 18+

[bigpauly]

Yea that’s fine

[KatherineJ]

Why wouldn’t it be? You are both adults.

[Counterclocking]

Age is just a number.

[fonduegirl]

Totally! Since both of them are legally adults!

[Rockstarrrrr]

I'd say that's close

[d3n0939]

as long as both of you like each other

[Anonymous]

yeah if you like immaturity lol

[HelaCute]

Ofc it is okay even this gap isn't very remarkable

[Fryday_Knight]

It is okay, Paula, love.

[Jamie05rhs]

Just don't take advantage of him, please.

[fonduegirl]

He's 21, not 17 lmao.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 I wasn't talking about legally. Lol.

[fonduegirl]

Yeah, the age gap isn't wide enough for it to be problematic

[fonduegirl]

He can make his own decisions I'm sure

[Jamie05rhs]

It is, though. At that age. He might be a virgin.

[fonduegirl]

As a virgin myself, I don't think it's that big of an issue. Im still pretty smart and sensible.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not your question, though. It's Paula's question. (And she's not a virgin.)

[fonduegirl]

So? How many times has it been the man was older and non virgin and people here didn't feel reluctant to support him? This is just sexist, J.

[fonduegirl]

Support him in dating a lady much younger, that is.

While Paula here wants someone within age range of under 6yr gap.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Oh, I am not hypocritical at all on this matter. I have Never, Ever supported an older non-virgin man taking advantage of a younger virgin woman. That doesn't fly with me, either!

[Jamie05rhs]

by the way, I'm not accusing her of anything. I'm just asking her politely to be considerate and not hurt him. That's all. :)

[fonduegirl]

Okedoke!

[Jamie05rhs]

. :)

[Keepitreal007]

Yes that’s not bad age gap.

[DrewJohnson]

Sounds like fun. Enjoy!

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Why do you think its an issue? Its ok

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That’s absolutely okay. Also, 24…. Lol.

[In_Trance]

It is if you're okay with it

[Twalli]

Yeah, the age difference isn't that bog

[goodgirlsteven]

go for it babe!

[JohnK123]

It’s only 3 years

[Anonymous]

Not okay. Quit robbing the cradle.