How rare for someone your seeing always raising green flags?

[Anonymous]

[desperatelyhungry]

Never happens to me. Anytime things go well with a guy for me, it’s usually a day or two before he disappoints or hurts me. I hope eventually to find the right one that this doesn’t happen with but it literally always happens and has caused me to quickly distract from people after the first disappointment or red flag; whether Hasty or not.

[Asker]

For myself late 30s it’s been only a week since I been talking with someone who is finally very decent to me. you going be kissing lots of frogs until you find someone who right for you. Plus your still young and you have lots of time on your side to make improvements to your life. Find a guy who cooks a lot and who has a decent job or more. Goes to church or has god on his side. Trust me it will happen if your looking to settle down. Best recommendation is go slow and be best friends with your crush who likes you back as do you. Each guy you met you have to show them what you have to offer at the table. a good friend of mine introduced me to her best friend and then I instantly clicked with her best friend when I met the best friend. Don’t let people discourage you then lose hope. Just be patient and let it happen!

[desperatelyhungry]

Thanks for the advice. I’ve prayed for a good godly man and found one, but he lives four hours away, I don't know if I wanna pursue it given the distance. Also, I can’t say there’s a spark. I do like him and think we could build something but the last two guys I dated they weren’t that good to me, but there was a spark. That’s what makes it difficult cause I miss having that spark and instant chemistry with someone. Perhaps one day

[Asker]

Me and her we clicked instantly. We have the same likes and views. We talk about anything without conflict or problems. Our relationship just flows and our friends found us flirting like crazy naturally. We might not be perfect on the zodiac sign and you can bond with someone who’s not matching on the zodiac chart. sometimes life will tell you when love is coming. The right person comes unexpectedly when the time is right.

[Guy13]

You mean Everything is good? Super rare‼️