What is one green flag in a partner that negates all red flags for you?

[OKrts98]

[razelove]

There isn't one. Like that concept can't exist, especially not for women. My ability to make you laugh can't negate fear of death, say if I'm extraordinarily jealous, and willing to kill over cheating (real or perceived) at the same time.

Logically it just doesn't click for me. Even if there's a woman obsessed with pleasing me in every way, if she shot up heroin, it'd be a no go. Especially since the rule here is one positive to eliminate all negatives. Maybe if it was many positives for one outstanding negative or something...

[DaveJord]

There is not any Green Flag that negates RED FLAGS... that is not how it works.

If she was millionaire, very beautiful, hot and sexy, all Green Flags, right?

But she is also very controlling, with mental health issues and 12 dogs that all sleep in her California King with her. The Green Flags do not cancel out the Red.

[jennifer_bloom]

There is no green flag that would erase a red flag, but one is morality. If he is an ethical person, he can be ugly or stupid or poor and he would still have be datable to me.

[Quackthulu2]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/no0qB8CVspY

this

[magiusX26]

not going into wether or not such exists or not fir some. this is a very bad idea to ask. it is tantimount to asking people "how can others easily manipulate you?" . any answer very well leaves that person open to anyone else more or less taking emotional control of the answerer. other such questions that should not be asked would be something like "what is the combination to your safe?" , "what is your government ID number?" , "what is your credit card number and pin code?" and more along these lines.

[Anonymous]

If I think she's genuinely a caring person. Now when I say that I REALLY mean it. Most women think they're caring people. They're not. Most just think they are. They think because they have feelings that makes then genuinely a good person. It doesn't.

I'm talking a woman who's darn near altruistic. Who cares for people when nobody's watching and she has absolutely nothing to gain from it.

Having been on this earth 40+ and having seen some of the rotten stuff women are capable of i'm very distrustful. And when I see a woman who's seemingly a pure soul just because it's who she is. It flabbergasted me. Because these women are so rare. And pretty much non existent buy my age. Because if she exists some guy was smart enough to have married her.

[therealricksanchez]

I don't think there can be one green flag that can override multiple red flags, specially if the red flags are important. I think people choose partners by balancing all the good and bad things a person has, such as values, qualities and flaws.

But an important green flag, I would say it is that the person is righteous and kind.

[provokeesmokee]

None.

There are no green flags that outweigh a red one.

Those are preferences.

Red flags are warnings and dangers, not "spices" or nice to haves.

[Smashingdoozy]

Having no red flags.
Red flags are not acceptable. They are not things that you can just look past.

[Miristheiss]

Loyal, relationship/marriage minded, not promiscuous, doesn't smoke or do drugs, doesn't drink or if she does she just has one every blue moon or so, modest, traditional.

[Adam1978]

There is no such thing. The green flag is to not have the red flag.

[Minahh]

Exactly

[Billlewis]

If she'll tease me relentlessly but never let me fuck her. I know that's weird, but that's what turns me on more than anything else:)

[Jay3344]

This red flag stuff is in fashion right now. I would say one green flag that negates all red flags does not exist. There are green flags that outweigh red flags for sure but to say one thing will negate all the bad is very difficult

[TheSpaceGnome]

There is no green flag that negates red flags. A partner needs to have no red flags at all, and all the green flags that I'm looking for, or I'm not going to be interested in her.

[BCA6010]

There's no such thing, or else they wouldn't be red flags.

[WhitneySnow]

None. I judge the whole person, green flags and red flags.

[dynamicyandere]

Red flags negate green flags—not the other way around.

[dynamicyandere]

For me, a true red flag is a non-negotiable. A true red flag is something that I know I will not tolerate in a relationship.

Example: She’s emotionally abusive or manipulative and doesn’t treat me with respect. Red flag.

[DarkWinterNights]

There are some red flags that aren’t as red as others. But there isn’t a green flag that’s going to override serious issues.

[MysteriousDarkness]

None. If a green flag could override any red flag in a person then those red flags were miniscule, you are naive to the red flags or just stupid to accept the red flags.

[Kkoalalita]

I don’t like doing that…just cuz i find something i’m attracted to doesn’t mean i will ignore all the red flags

[dreamstar72]

Money just kidding or not. Actually nothing fixes multiple red flags.

[LiamJHayden]

No such thing. She can be drop dead gorgeous and have an otherwise perfect personality, but if she cheats I'm gone.

[justJoshua555]

A red flag is a red flag, I don't think so a green flag can help them hide a red flag.

[Shamalien]

I used to believe there were flags so green they cancelled all the reds

then my ex happened