What are some green flags you look for in a potential spouse?

[Anonymous]

[Ben487]

Green flag, if she's obsessed with you. If she's obsessed than she likely is going to feel like she got quite the catch and maybe won't go looking around after she's married so much.

[Simslover92]

This could also be a red flag. Being super obsessive can turn into possession and doing all kinds of crazy things. I would know because I was obsessed over my boyfriend before we got together and did some fucked up shit to him because of my obsession.

[Ben487]

@Simslover92 What did you do that was so messed up? The only potential downside I can see is perhaps they might get super jealous and clingy or something.

[Simslover92]

Emotionally available and open
Loving and communicative
Good listener
Honest and loyal