What are things that you consider "green flags" or positive signs that are often overlooked when you enter a relationship?

[spice]

Have you ever experienced that what you thought is definitely a green flag for you and when you enter the relationship you realized that it is overlooked?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Mine's kinda silly but here goes. Occasionally I like to mess with the people I know, fib something to see how they react. When meeting a person earlier this year I was introduced as a major Attack On Titan fan, and the person told me they loved it too. So I made a joke and said 'no, I actually hate it.'

Almost everyone I've done this to has changed their belief immediately. Right after I said this, the person shrugged and said 'I understand, it's pretty terrible', despite him being a fan of the show for years.

My boyfriend is the one exception. If I mess with him like this, his belief doesn't change. It's a simple green flag, but it told me that he was a truly sincere person, who didn't change to fit in. It's something he doesn't notice in himself

[HaleyCatgirl]

So I just got in a relationship with my best friend we've known each other since we were five he's 16 now I'm 15 he's a nice guy he likes animals he's really helpful too and gentle he knows me the best too which is awesome he knows when I'm too scared to say something he'll push me towards it

[PizzaDaddyo]

My new girl is an Eagles fan. That’s as green as it gets being where from Philadelphia.
E-A-G-L-E-S!

[DextroShade]

Not being on social media is the biggest one I can think of.

[davnerLeL]

when they dont find another guy in just a weeks break.

[Anonymous]

Allows anal early into sexual partnership. A sign sex will only get more interesting