What green flag behaviors would you like to see more of in your current/future relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Number one is communicating…. There’s two extremes there’s one of never being honest about how you feel and the other of being intentionally abrasive. But it’s a green flag if a woman tells me something I do bothers her, that she wants this, or needs that. If it’s not something that I’m willing to change or do… I can end the relationship on good terms. Maybe we just aren’t compatible. Nothing wrong with her. But I also know…. It won’t build resentment if we can talk honestly.
Someone who doesn’t expect me to be a psychic telepathic mind reader… I don’t play that game I don’t try to guess why someone’s mad. If you can’t communicate like a functioning adult who speaks English… sorry

If someone can admit she’s wrong and take accountability. If she can say she’s sorry. I don’t mean over apologizing… I don’t mean saying sorry when you haven’t done anything wrong I mean when someone messes up they say sorry and mean it.

Having boundaries. I mean reasonable standards and boundaries not a sense of entitlement there is two extreme. Look someone who will settle for anybody just doesn’t seem like they’re seeking genuine love. It’s as big of a red flag of being entitled and having unreasonable standards. It also shows someone whose stable. Look I’m not bashing people suffering emotionally. The issue is that people who will start expecting you to read their minds.

Emotionally supportive. If someone lacks any empathy for you it really shows they are a dark personality especially if they claim to love you. I don’t just mean crying though partners are supposed to be companions. I don’t care what people say…. Oh you can’t show sadness can’t show anger just be miserable and hold your frame… and that doesn’t work in a 20 year long marriage in your own house. A partner is supposed to be supportive. Both partners. You’re supposed to be able to show a side of yourself to them you don’t show the world. If you can’t express emotions. Don’t be with her/him.

Same thing for being able to be your true authentic self. This is the other side of it. Those weird hobbies you don’t tell everyone. Your true personality when your weird side.

[Lorenzo501]

As a man who is married 30 years since I’m 24 years old I have six children and 19 grandchildren three of my kids are married two of them to nice girls who cook clean do everything for them and my sons do everything for their wives. They have great lives and my sons and daughter-in-law’s both own business businesses.. my one daughter-in-law owns a beauty salon and my other daughter-in-law owns an Italian restaurant. They’re both in their 20s and both my son’s own construction companies so they have great lives together. They do like I did. I taught them well they let other people run their businesses and they enjoy time with their wives and kids.. my daughter who owns part of my construction company is married to a very nice guy who also owns a construction business and two pizzerias. They’re with one another all the time they love one another they’re good to their kids.. I can only go by my playbook, and this is what I would tell. All women only worry about your husband not what’s going on in the streets. Be good to him. Do everything you can for him treat him the same way you would treat your child to every guy out there. I would say only worry about your wife. Be good to her treat her great and treat her like you would do your children if you put 100% love into one another believe me you will have a great life everybody I know all my brother and sisters are married and all have great lives because this is the way we live. it’s the way we were taught

[DishLady]

Consistency… the guy who shows up for you, opens up and wants the same from you.
Authenticity… the guy who will share his heart, not just his wallet. Too many guys think bc they pay for stuff they can bypass the caring/sharing/ “being there” aspects of a relationship, but those are the things that make the relationship REAL. The wallet… doesn’t show caring. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Simslover92]

Romantic, spontaneous, kind, compassionate

[AI Opinion]

As a pro in the love department, my aim here is to help you navigate the waves of romance like a pro surfer in Cali. Green flags? Oh, those sweet signals of promise! I'd love more of that supportive high-five kind of love, where you cheer each other on like the ultimate dream team. Transparent communication is hot, and when plans together turn into laughter marathons – that's the dream! Let's savor genuine interest and those little gestures that make your heart skip a beat. With these, you're not just sailing; you're flying! 🌊❤️

[HawkPerception]

Words of affirmation and openness. If they have something good to say or a compliment in mind, I'd like to hear it. Same goes with if something is bothering them. No matter what it is, I want them to be honest with me. Communication is key.

I also appreciate when my partner engages in physical affection. It makes me feel loved and desired. She can touch me whenever she wants.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Openness without telling me your entire life story in one night. It makes me think you have an identity crisis or some kind of chip on your shoulder. Show me who you are first and then I'll be interested in your perspective how you became that way.

[MrChinaski]

Maybe you want a man that is physically attractive, confident, a good interlocutor, funny, ambitious, not afraid to show vulnerability, kind and generous toward strangers... Congrats! You've chosen Ted Bundy!

There are no 'green flags'.

There are two people trying to relate. Which is the hardest thing in the world to do fully, vulnerably, adventurously and courageously.

Good luck in your every adventure.

[Alex_Bright]

I'd really appreciate when a partner sincerely apologised when they do a shitty thing.
That's a green flag for me.

[Bricealan]

I would like to see Diane divorce her husband

[Nikki1989]

None that I can think of.

[Anonymous]

I never had a relationship.

[beefcakebradybatson]

B. J. s !!!