What are your relationship/dating green flags?

[Still-alive]

As opposed to 'red flags' green flags instead are signs that let you know 'this one is a keeper' or 'stay with this one'

a few examples:

- They make time for you.

- They have a good relationship with friends and family.

- Their words match their actions.

and there's much more. so what are your personal 'green flags'?

[sheenagwapa]

I don't know i just follow my hesrt. well someone who supports me especially my dark times. if i feel he is a good person most of all if he has strong faith in God i feel like i'm in good hands because people with strong faith are people most likely unbendable with their values in terms of choosing what is right and wrong I don't know if this is the English equivalent but they have principles which sounds crazy and impractical but it is driven by strong faith like you can never make them be with someone who is evil despite the gains they could get. since they rely on a God they also follow their heart they don't use and have clear conscience. i don't cate much on how sweet they are with their parents because some people they love their parents but not sweet to them because they didn't grew up with that kind of environment. the better clue for me is how they are on their past relationship rather than how they are with friends and family because relationship is the most intimate yoy can be with someone and so i assume you bare your soul with this person unlike friends and family there's that sort of wall as what i mentioned some people could not even say ily to their parenys but for sure to SO they're the most themselves because they're most comfortable with SO

[menina]

It's interesting to see a question about "green flags", because we're always discussing the red ones.

To me is seeing that he has a good relationship with his family. That he's not afraid of showing emotions. Also that he's open to learn and to grow.

[Grovermint]

If she initiated. I'm not talking about signals that can easily be misinterpreted, I'm talking goes on a limb and asks you out.

If she treats others well- staff at their jobs, people that get in her way, etc- and not just you.

Consistency between words and actions. She is supposed to be somewhere and actually does it or calls to let you know she's going to be late or can't make it ahead of the agreed time.

Communicates actively.

[ManOnFire]

She values me as a person and not how much money I make. She is not a follower. She keeps things real and doesn't wear faces.

Great question, man. Cuz we're always talking about red flags.

[Xysmiles]

She's intelligent

She's an independent thinker

She shows you she has respect for you

She's kind but also a little spicy

She tells you that she trusts you genuinely just to tell you

She stays when you're struggling and doesn't change up on you after

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

They don't talk about sex all the time, their communication with me is good, they speak good about children, they talk about their parents, etc.

[cosmosis181]

Not from the U. S. or a big follower of American culture. It means she's more likely to value what it takes to cultivate a real friendship and relationship, not just vacuum money from everyone and keep the ego pump on full bast around the clock.

[RealMarek]

Reciprocating my interest, caring, consistent behavior over time, kind even to people who she doesn’t need to be kind to… these are some.

[zero444440000]

they understanding when i am busy and understand that love isn't about hogging each other all day, its about caring and helping each other when they in need/because you wanna help each other.

[SolitarySolace]

She isn’t a feminist. That would be a major green flag for me. Feminists are a huge turn off for me.

[Guido]

Seems genuinely interested in me, makes me laugh and puts her phone away when we are together to focus on us.

[anonmay1]

Consistency in communication- actions aligning to words

[serious]

Never been in a relationship.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Finally, someone who’s glass is half full.

[Sparkie460]

They don't try to be someone they are not

[OddBeMe]

Sense of humor.
Ambition.
A nice round ass.