Do you ever wonder how you can better yourself for a man?

[Anonymous]

It seems only men have to better themselves but women are just supposed to be accepted as they come

Yes I do

No I don’t

A total of 14 votes were cast: 10 girls and 4 guys. See detailed results

[northerngal]

You know my knee jerk position was no... but thats not true. I try to better myself for all kinds of people. I try to be better for me, for my employer for my friends and yes for men... I do enjoy the attention. I do like to look good. I do enjoy improving my love making skills. So yes i do. But in reality I strive for self improvement for myself. The effect it has on others is a positive side effect.

[sheenagwapa]

i love hard but i don't better myself for a man it is always for me. i always strive to be better and this is becoming a problem. i love to be around people but i can also be a soloist. i can enjoy my own company.

[exitseven]

I am always trying to make myself better. I am still working on my career and I just ratcheted up my workouts. I am teaching myself how to put down a floor.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[strateguy632]

some gals talked like that to me so i mirrored it "what can i help you fix" that angered them to dump me. good riddance!

[Boomchakalaca]

Yes, how can i be a good nurturer and wife? Helloo 💍

[Asker]

Awesome! Who’s the picture of in your profile? AI generated?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I think both sexes should always be looking to better themselves and mostly for themselves, not for someone else.

[Asker]

Don’t you want to be the best version of yourself for your man

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I want to be the best version of myself for me. I would assume he will love me regardless just as I love him no matter what.

[DishLady]

No, I don’t. I am constantly working to improve myself so I can be more useful to my community, etc. … and for my own happiness.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think I'm already doing pretty good. I do it for myself, my future partner, and everyone else around me.

[Anonymous]

No, and I have no interest in finding a man. I don’t date and don’t plan to either. If I’d somehow ever run into someone anyway yes he’d have to accept me as I am or he can leave immediately I don’t care.

[Booklover_90]

Women should better themselves…for themselves, not for a man.

[Asker]

Whynot for a man? Why is that offensive to women? Don’t you want to find the best man you can and be the best woman for him

[Booklover_90]

Because we deal with ourselves daily. Our growth and maturity is important. I don’t know why you’re confused. It’s actually quite simple. Also, not everyone gets married. So, preparing for a man that may never come is pointless.

[Asker]

Yeah but you increase your chances of finding the best man

[Booklover_90]

You’re not getting it. I don’t know how else to explain it other than what I said above. At any rate, take care. 😊

[The_Sexpert]

Just be yourself , you need to pine the social approval of everyone you meet

[Anonymous]

You sound like a virgin.