What are some green flags when going on a date?

[Kayla45]

Green as in features that you agree with or enjoy, rather than disliking like red flags?

[RubyFrench]

he's not too into his devices while with you
He doesn't mention anything sexual (1st date)
Honestly answering (Even if you don't like it)
He talks highly of mothers and sisters, family

He wants you to meet his friends
He mentions seeing you again
He's nice to other people around (waiters etc)
He has goals in life and shares them
Has stability in where he lives
Respect for both women and men

[mandyfire98]

When a person is attentive, when our chemistry lines up, when our life values line up, when they look like they take care of themselves and put forth a bit of effort on themselves. Nice to the wait staff. Good at communication.

[HawkPerception]

• Shows up on time
• Doesn't go on her phone during our conversation
• It's not just me doing all the talking; she contributes to the conversation
• Not afraid of eye contact
• Not afraid to voice her opinions
• Kind to everyone around her (like if at a restaurant she's kind to the wait staff)
• Not afraid to make jokes

[Still-alive]

On time

listening to what im saying

asking me questions back/showing interest

showing she has a sense of humor

showing empathy- seeing how she treats people around her like the waiter

[Still-alive]

Oh and they can effectively communicate things

[Kayla45]

Good points, I agree with them :)

[Still-alive]

:) :)

[AviatorTom]

When you talk, she listens, and when she talks, you listen. That's a very big GREEN FLAG. 😃

[V_Injector]

She really likes my piss and shit jokes.

[Nirmroth]

-She looks like her pictures or better

-Offers to split

-Obvious stuff like same goals/plans regarding rl/kids/etc

-Smells good I don't know why but when you get a whiff of her hair while hugging and you feel a bit drugged its the hormones telling you she's a great match I think. Had the opposite happen aswell by the way were she was nice and all but I just couldnt stand her smell.

-I feel at ease with her, when it stops feeling like a date but like you meet a longtime friend and you can be just yourself.

[Den1971]

Shows up for the first date on time smells good holds the doors open pulls out chairs when it's time for you to sit stands up whenever it's time for you to go to the restroom text your cut off and get it to the door I'm in to hang at the door when you're leaving he text the jacket from the door man and he puts it on you himself he doesn't try any funny shit he stands close to you but not touches you if y'all decide to go for a late night walk you walk on the inside he walks outside by the street if it's cold outside he takes his jacket off and puts it on you those are just a few of my tricks 🙂

[Babygirl_S]

I like if a guy doesn’t ask if I’m a virgin. It is annoying if someone is obnoxiously obsessed with my virginity. I also prefer guys who don’t ask how much money I make. You’d be surprised to know that most men here want a woman who earns well and maybe even more than themselves. Some even ask my academic achievements and that puts me off because I’m looking for a partner and not applying for a job 😒

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

wow lol, that really is a different culture you live in

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

Being polite to staff when we're at a store or restaurant. If they're kind to strangers, they'll probably be kind to you.

A clean car, if we're taking theirs. If their car is clean, they probably keep their home clean too.

[Crimsyjo]

Think people covered it well already.

I consider it a good date if we talked freely and well with openess both sides and he doesn't try to grope or talk sex!

[thearchjoker]

Being kind, respectful, fun to be around, good at holding a conversation (preferable) or at least one who enjoys listening (If not a conversationalist), has a sense of humor, is smart (Or at least not stupid), Hugs are a major plus

[BetaBucks]

Engagement. Eye contact. Talking personal stuff. But this all boils down to one thing and that's interest.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Or they are things you know will benefit the relationship, some examples of green flags is selflessness and empathy because they both show how that person will care for you in a relationship.

[stratford]

She is as interested in my life as I am in hers.

Emotional is most important for green flags, but there are physical too - let me know if you want the deets :-)

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Thank you for going the green way instead of the red one I've read a lot already lol

[Japangirly]

When he actually listens to you when you’re talking

[ProbablyClueless]

Punctual, polite to servers, says things that I feel like I can learn something from her.

[Nerdvana]

Kindness, sense of humor, on time, not on her phone, is respectful if she has a different opinion. To name a few.

[LiamJHayden]

Smiling, kindness, attentiveness, phone on silent.

[elaphe]

Someone who is a good conversationalist is a must for me.

[RavVid]

Genuinely has the feminine virtues.

[jojouzumaki]

Gentle, respectful and non-judgmental.

[paledreams]

Says split bills up front 🙂🫡😋

[MrGSpotHer]

Well a personality would be a start