What's a "weird" green flag you have?

[HawkPerception]

Something unusual that immediately makes you more interested in someone. (ex. They have a specific, weird laugh, they're kind to customer service robots, they organize their bookshelf by color, etc.")

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7 mo

I appreciate those who shared facts about themselves, but my intention for this question was weird green flags you have for others! Just clarifying.

[Piercejeans1]

A basement full of whips and chains.

Collection of Beach Boy albums / cassettes / CDs.

A strong contempt for the antiquated American secondary school system curriculum.

An ex stripper who did it because she was in financial hardship. And then got her law degree. Or some other higher degree.

A woman who knows how to serve meals with the Mediterranean diet.

A spiritual woman with a strong interest in the supernatural or miracles.

A cat rescuer. Animal lover.

A woman who does not attach any special value to footwear. Shoes are just shoes. They cover our feet and allow us to walk on stones without going "Ow!"

Women who initiate sex. Women who are familiar with and like kinky sex.

[Piercejeans1]

I would not know what other people have for green flags towards others. These are all green flags to me if I see this behavior in a woman... then I am more interested.

[HawkPerception]

No, you answered it correctly the first time. The update was addressed to others who were speaking about themselves

[Xawyx-2]

I kinda like girls who are into martial arts.

[Xawyx-2]

In general I like sporty & tomboyish type of girls.

I see some people in here don't know what tomboyish means... you can't be a tomboy and a nerd, those two are completely opposite.

[Xawyx-2]

Thanks for the MHO

[DishLady]

Sense of humor has to be a certain way -- speedy keeping up with me, perhaps a step ahead.

[HawkPerception]

What's interesting is there are studies that show women are attracted to men with their level of intelligence or higher and men being attracted to women with their level of intelligence or lower.

[DishLady]

Exactly.

[DishLady]

But it has to be "true intelligence" and not just some poser shit.

[Simslover92]

Not sure if it's weird, but have a great obsession with music to the point where they have to do almost everything with it.

[EzraIsShy76028]

I guess basically if they're willing to challenge norms instead of just accepting them because "that's just the way it is" or "it's traditional."

I myself don't agree with a lot of society's rules so that's a pretty big deal to me.

Like as an example it's understandable if you're not super deep into LGBTQ+ stuff but you should still respect them as people even if you don't agree with everything they're saying.

And I think it's fine for a man to be feminine and a woman to be masculine. I think gender roles are really stupid actually personally. Plus, if tomboys have been a thing for so long then why not a word for feminine guys? I know there's words like femboy or twink or whatever but they aren't true equivalents of tomboy.

And it's not only that but those are just some examples.

[Bolt1104]

I know a lot of people think it’s weird but I’m always prepared for something! I make emergency plans for everyone I love including my pets for any different type of emergency. Main thing we deal with where I live is hurricanes so I already have packed bags by the door carriers for the cats and the grab bags for the animals and my family ready to leave asap.

[queenofcardio]

I have so many interests. I like knowing a little about everything.

[HawkPerception]

You and me both. I go on rabbit hole adventures one after the other using AI and Google

[queenofcardio]

Haha yes. Same 😅

[DishLady]

Hmm. Good question. Not sure what would qualify as weird nowadays.

[Crimsyjo]

Usually it's my love of comics, Marvel/gaming. And Im a gal not afraid to get down to work. Im kinda like a Geek and Tom boy but in sexy feminine clothing. So guys seem to like that mixture and surprised in a good way.

[Bolt1104]

Oh man I so agree with this! I am also a tomboy and a nerd lol!

[Crimsyjo]

@Bolt1104 yayyy haha! We are the best lol -

[Bolt1104]

Oh for sure! Lol!

[Awesomesauce2005]

I like girls who are into working on things, it would be a dream come true to attack a project with my lover by my side

[HawkPerception]

What kind of stuff/project?

[Awesomesauce2005]

Restoring a car and/or a house

[LuciusTheOdd]

Being overly competitive, whether or not it is friendly is totally optional, as long as she doesn’t take the BMing too far I’m all for it.

[Noredcarpet]

I wish I knew. They say I have "something" but they can't say what it is, just something that I guess make them feel good around me? Friends, females. Others have said it too, not just partner. I guess it's a green flag?

[Noredcarpet]

Thats so funny, your update, oh green flags on orhers, not the ego me? Oh well. Seriously I would name kindness as my number one combined with healthy boundaries, balance. Humor is a must. I have all kinds of humor. That you actually like the person after the first excitement, that it is a good person.

[HawkPerception]

But those aren't weird lol

[Noredcarpet]

My God whats wrong with me lol, sorry about that, but I do have to return to the sense of humor, had ex with a crazy sense of humor that I knew others thought was weird and I was like 50/50 at first before I got the hang of it, knew him better, by then I thought he was hilarious, I finally got it.

[fivebyfour]

Owning a firearm, and knowing how to use it,,,

[loveslongnails]

Hmmm... look at my screen name. LOL That and pretty feet :)

[Alex-Snow]

I love a genuine smile and someone who will listen and have a fun convo with.

[On_cloud_wine]

They shave their pits and have a clean bathroom

[robocop666]

Similar interests. I also like women who like x-rated outfits.

Jelena karleusa

[AngryCarl2]

Girls who dress modestly and don't do social media.

[HawkPerception]

Wouldn't call that weird lol. I think most guys are into that

[Eleni9]

Someone who isn't afraid to be silly.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Toss up between Loyalty and Empathy

[beenherebefore]

I'm a home body.

[snermcger]

A slight strabismus.