Do you think this was a shitty thing my boyfriend did?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I went up north for the week, we live an hour away from each other. I live closer up north and he lives more south. So i had a prior commitment to do before we head up north and his original plan was for me to come down to his place and then he would drive.

The way it was located where we were going didn't make sense for me to go up and down again since the next day we come back home i had to go back down south a little for something.

My idea was for him to come up to me then ill drive up north. He was fine with my idea and me driving until he said no no ill drive so i can show you the route.

Last minute he texts me and he said that the more he thinks about it , its going to do damage to his car with the milage and suggested for me to come down to his place and he "will drive" .

He ended up coming to my place and i drove us up north but i can't help but be annoyed about that..

Yea that was shitty

No it wasn't

[MoniqueTLC]

A bit confusing, but it sounds like you got what you wanted if you didn't have to drive down South first? Sounds like the communication and plans was a bit amiss but it all worked out.

What are you annoyed about? That he messaged you to change plans and then ended up changing again?

[Asker]

Yea i was annoyed at first when he mentioned that idea again and the fact he changed his mind

[MoniqueTLC]

I assume everything is sorted now?

[Guy13]

😱…. you are already too much for me. Negative and overthinks. “Bless his heart”

[Anonymous]

Your description is so confusing that I have no idea what happened.

[FilmGuy93]

That sounds mildly irritating, but not shitty.