Would you date a high maintenance person? Or have you dated one before?

[Chrysantenum95]

How would you treat/handle this person?

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Im referring to a person who requires a lot of time, money, or effort because of their high standards.

[Googlemyahoo]

I did it was very brief. Met at the bar but she dated a former hockey teammate of mine. I asked him how she was & he explained totally controlling high maintenance.

Went out on a date with her it was ok the next day went out with friends. Third day I try calling her get no response so I go out with friends again. Run into her at the club she’s giving me the cold shoulder has her friend say she’s mad at me for not calling her at all the second day.

I shrugged said ah well. Friend tells her so she walks over starts flirting with my friend. My friends looking at me like wtf I nod my head to him indicating go ahead. He starts putting his hand on her waist flirting back she pushed him away and yelled at me “Don’t you care?”

I bought two shots went to her friend and offered her a shot started flirting with her. Her friend was laughing about it knowing I was playing games but the controlling one lost her shit in the bar. They had a little cat fight and stormed out.

So like one day date. I will not be controlled.

[ALPHABLACK]

My soon to be wife pretended to be very normalish even minimalist but later on I found out she was high maintenance high profile stuff and All she needed from me was my money so she filed a fake case against me and now just like all the men out there I am going though 4 years in court
So feel free to mind if I say hateful things about females my damages are unrepairable

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m too lazy to date a high maintenance person. I will never work like a rat or exercise like a dog cause my pain tolerance is too low for long term commitment to that.

[ArtemisSilver]

Depends on the kind of maintenance required. I'm happy to clean her pipes out once in a while and even change the oil, but if I have to change the transmission I'm out.

[Anonymous]

I suppose that depends on what you would define as high maintenance. What comes to my mind is someone who's codependent, which sounds exhausting

[EaterPeter]

I have. Most of us are liabilities, projects some are big some are huge. Me ex was. She accumulate $1000 a year just in fines at least 6 to 7 years.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[dolemite89]

i have and won’t do it again, i’ll take a girl that’s a 6-7 and actually fun over a 10 that’s a narcissistic brat any day

[KrakenAttackin]

Been there, done that... I will NEVER do that again.

[Methis]

Been there
Done that
Not worth the damage they do to your soul

[Xoirwinkan]

I don't think I'd have that much in common with such a girl, at least in terms of lifestyle.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

What exactly is "high maintenance"?

[eagle1951]

have dated one, would never do it again

[chicosuave]

No too much work