I'm a rather basic person. As such I don't believe a girl who's high maintenance would get along well with my spartan like way of life. In the end it's not worth it or is it rewarding. There are many basic and down to earth girls out there who I can love just as much, yet enjoy life with the basics that we both have.
I drive a Smart Car granted I drive like I stole it, but moral is it's unlikely a high maintainer girl would stay with me for too long, lol.
Depends. I'm ok with high maintenance girls if they're the ones maintaining themselves, meaning not asking me to buy them their expensive clothes and beauty products, or if they expect me to take her out to expensive places all the time. If she's high maintenance and she pays for it, I'm ok with it.
Only if she can actually maintain that class for a lifetime. This will show something about her. Honestly many high maintenance. women change after marriage. They are like now I can wear flat slippers, eat and get flabby and be as lazy as I want to. They loose their high maintenance attitude so it's kinda disappointing for the guy especially when he was attracted to her that specific attitude. Most Guys like to care a lot but they will not show it directly by saying I care for you. They will always hunt for indirect means
1. Does she deep throat my dick on a regular basis?
2. Does she provide any of her own income? Because it's really not that expensive to buy makeup and decent clothes. It's not like you need to be a millionaire to afford such things.
High maintenance? Ewwwwww. Fun to fuck and listen to on mute, but other than that, haaaaaard pass.
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if I liked her then i'd be willing to put up with it. haha. but i'd much rather have someone that doesn't mind playing in the dirt and can survive a day or three without makeup and luxury spas. :)
But that is actually low maintenance in my world. It is significantly easier to give someone a lot of physical items with money than it is to give them the time and dedication required for them to heal from traumas. I suppose I think that high maintenance women are those who require a lot of resources of more than one type such as time, money, mental energy, emotional energy, space etc.
Materialism is easily dealt with and never being happy is not a problem I ever am dumb enough to take upon myself.
I could imagine it being difficult for someone who is not in a financially stable position however if someone wants more than you can offer in a resource then they aren't the person for you. That isn't a male-centric statement either; there are women who may lack specific skills that men are looking for in a partner or resources such as social clout which they just don't have and thus the males reject them. Social clout is an incredibly valuable resource so dating socially desirable and popular women has a very tangible effect even if the clout itself is an intangible asset; think of it as "branding" in a sense.
So either you lack the physical capital, for men, or the social capital, for women, to be desirable and that's part of life. One is easier to increase than the other too so I do feel bad for women on that front. Money is easy to get.
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