He doesn’t want to be seen with me?

[Anonymous]

I have been talking to this guy for a little over a week now I meet him at school and we have been talking on snap, he’s really really nice to me but doesn’t want to be seen with me he would go and delete all of our chats in snap and ask me to delete some too, when we first hung out he told me I had to put my phone somewhere so I wouldn’t take any photos of him even though i wasn’t going to. He doesn’t want to talk to me i front of his friends. When I met up with him he said if he wanted any photos or video he would have to take it with his phone.

pls tell me why he does that

[Anonymous]

You said it yourself... seems like he's embarrased to be seen with you... This might sound harsh, but I say this with all sincerity and good intentions in my heart. You need to find some respect for yourself and get rid of this guy. You don't deserve to be treated that way. One day you'll meet someone who's proud to have you in their life. You could even lay it out for this guy like "if you want this to continue, in going to have to stop being treated like the skeleton in your closet". If he's against that, you should cut and run. Unless you just want friends with benefits, in which case it doesn't really matter lol

[Guy13]

It seems as though he is very secretive. Does that makes sense to you? And that in some way ashamed to let his buddies know. Me and mu buds were opposite as in high school we would brag to each other. I'm not sure?

[slatyb]

He fears the disapproval of his friends.