He doesn’t want to meet me does he?

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RomanticDan · Accepted Answer

You placed the ball in his court. Now you should wait and see if he picks it up. If you continue to chase after him, you may come off as needy. If he doesn't text you back then it's a no go. Think of it this way. If you really wanted something, do you make excuses or do you open up your schedule and make time for it? If you really wanted something, you are putting in effort and you are not passive about it. Don't contact him, I would give him a day or two then you can delete his number off your phone. There are plenty other open courts out there, try taking a shot on one of those. It takes time but you will eventually make one in. Have a good life.

lnghrn_fan88 · Accepted Answer

Seems like he's more nervous. Guys are afraid of meeting and getting rejected.

lumos · Accepted Answer

It doesn't seem too good but I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, see if he'll get back to you. If he doesn't, he's not interested. You've made your interest loud and clear now though, so if I were you, I'd see how much initiative he takes anyway. And not just with this one hypothetical hangout (date?) but also in general. See if he's ever willing to text you out of the blue or willing to hang out when you're not the one suggesting it. Some people only talk to you and hang out with just because you ask, and wouldn't ever actually do it if they had to make the arrangements themselves. Such people aren't worth your time and energy.

mellsoll01 · Accepted Answer

Look I've been in the dating scene for few months now..
I know when a guy is interested lol
When a guy is interested, he would text few times a week to keep in touch or at least once a week and ask "when are you free?"
They would be the ones chasing you
It's just in their nature
Yes there's shy guys out there but you initiated!
This guy didn't even reschedule with you lol
Move on girl.
Life is too short to waste on people that doesn't deserve you!
You will find someone else that will give you his time :) trust me

Moonchild714 · Accepted Answer

@justme1171, who toldyou you're in your prime? Who wants old men who can't keep it up or need a little Blue Pill to get it up!!! I only datemen in their Prime which is their 20s' we like our men to keep it up all on their own, I don't need anything he better not need over 35 starts to ween that weenie... No one has ever said middle age is prime for men, but it is considered Prime for women; Why do you think all the young Studs want us, not for money like only reason young chicks go for old boys... Hahahaha. I always laugh on GaG

MajesticTwelve · Accepted Answer

Don't come off as so available.  Be aloof, be cool. Be "whatever" If he doesn't want you after that, he never wanted you at all, and you can move on!

zxcded · Accepted Answer

I’m sorry, I think you sound too available men like some chase.

Helloyouhowareyou · Answer

I don’t think he wants to. If he did he would for sure make plans somewhere. Of course someone could not be busy all the time. I feel like the fact that he is ghosting is a sign.

I am sorry. I feel you tho. I had the same problem. Was invested in a guy. Turned out he didn’t like me back. But i promise it’s really not the end of the world boo. We are strong woman and can get over it.

The best people come our way when we least expect it. The right one will come and put effort into you and will make time for you.

Flamdring · Answer

Not enough information, but my guess is that he is trying to avoid you. It may be due to him wanting to have his own space due to stress or other worries that are currently more important to him than meeting.

You made him aware that you would like to meet. That is it. If you send more messages, you may seem clingy and most people dislike that. Now he has to decide whether he wants to meet with you or not. If he does not respond, leave it be (better for you).

Spiritwander · Answer

Yeah... you might be scaring him a little, but I'd have to see the trend of convos to know for certain, but yeah, you kinda look like you're houndin' him a bit... (play more aloof/hard to get, but not too much; like when he reconnects, just be like, "A'ight.. Whatevs", and take it casual...)

[I mean... save some for the bedroom, yeah?]😅😏😉

Prada911 · Answer

If he's consistently avoiding you, then yes. While people do get busy from time to time, they will need some kind of relationship to feel alive. So they will socialise for sure. If you are not in their social
Circle despite many days of waiting, then you should probably consider moving on.

LA_Snow · Answer

dinner with my sister? dammm he really wants the dinner with his sister instead of seeing you seems like he's avoding you

justme1171 · Answer

You’re over thirty and still single. That’s a red flag. No he doesn’t want you. He knows you’re either unattractive, a thot or mentally unstable and he’s ditching you to hang out with a hot young twenty something fuckable girl who is the opposite of you. Get used to it sweetheart. You’ve hit the wall and rejection is your life now. have fun

Coolflow7 · Answer

Like others said, you will have to wait a few days and see. If he really wants to spend time with you he would have suggested an alternate time right away and made some effort. Not just said “I’ll check”
Good luck!

Dinoraptor101 · Answer

Dudes playing the chase game... He has no value or respect for your time or attention. Spare yourself.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Lmao sounds like someone i know who was too obsessed with hanging with his sister 😂 give up. Games of thrones has a higher priority then us

nerms123 · Answer

Just leave him alone. If he’s interested he will let you know

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

I agree with you he doesn't want to meet up with you

Shuri · Answer

No, he doesn’t. I’d just delete him out of my phone and move on. I usually hit people with a ‘I hope you find someone’ message to let them know they’re full of shit and I know it.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i don't have anything against a bipolar person, but why would you choose to start dating one?

Agem123 · Answer

Why do u keep messaging him? So desperate. He is avoiding you, move on.

sweetpea12 · Answer

Is this someone you know or meeting through social?

Anonymous · Answer

seems like he doesn't so let him go im here, i can order you dinner :))

Hamsteroids · Answer

Doesn’t look like it. I’m sorry 😣

spartan55 · Answer

Geez, talk about overtexting

Anonymous · Answer

No, he doesn’t. Move on.

Harmseygrace · Answer

I reckon he does. He's probably just super busy.

LMNOP123 · Answer

If it's a constant thing give up on him.

Kazzza · Answer

Just wait until he replies or plans something

John_Doesnt · Answer

Why are your texts so long?

whitehide · Answer

It's not enough to go on from one text

Twenty2 · Answer

Move on moon! He's not into you.

Daviid_ · Answer

Looks like he doesn't.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure he does. He wouldn’t be asking if he didn’t.

Fuentes · Answer

Nah u sound cray

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think so

Anonymous · Answer

Yup he doesn’t.

He doesn’t want to meet me does he?

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