Which dress for a VERY casual date (we will meet @water fountain directly after I swim, so it must be light that fits easy into my back pack)?

[VIVANT]

Do not worry about alleviating my concern about clothing. I’m not worried about what I’m going to wear. It works best for me to visualize events before I enter into them— it helps to keeps me oriented & not caught off guard, which helps me to not freeze up in the moment, which makes everything more pleasant for all involved lol

So knowing what I’ll wear is one less unknown. I do not like surprises, I don’t do well with them, so no need to tell me to enjoy the suspense of life. I just adjust to situations in the best way I know how per event. 😊🙏🏼

Updates

+1 y

Gosh I forgot. I will be wearing crop top snd shirts underneath. There will be no cleavage not visible anything underneath. I can see how these may look risqué to others bc they won’t automatically adjust the dress with something opaque underneath. I automatically make that adjustment visually when I see a revealing dress in a style I otherwise like- so I completely forgot to mention this in the post. I like the styles but I do not enjoy revealing clothing. I intend to climb trees 🌲 😊

Updates

+1 y

I chose A B and also in white & light blue. I will just alternate colors each Thursday until I see him. 😂 & if he never shows up it’s OK. I really like having a “Thursday after swim outfit”.

Flowy airy modest (will wear a crop top and yoga shorts underneath same color as dress), the material dries quickly- in case my hair is still wet. Only thing I don’t like the brown buttons, I think I will paint them black🤔

Thank you for your help, of he shows up I will tell you generally how it went 😊

[WindAtMyBack]

Well, I'm a beat-up-jeans and T-shirt kind of person. I don't know where I'd be going with someone dressed like any of those pictures. I think E would be the closest to my style.

Some of those are very sexy. I think I'd be a little distracted.

So what would you wear if someone invited you on a date where you climbed a tree and sat on a big branch eating lunch?

[VIVANT]

I will be wearing crop top and shorts under all of these so I would climb trees in this. All light and airy. 😊😊 I don’t wear anything I can’t climb in 😊

[WindAtMyBack]

That's the spirit ! Let your inner wood nymph shine.

[VIVANT]

😂 😂 whenever I’m able

[OlderAndWiser]

I think D is a perfect combination of modesty, flirtatiousness, and subtle sexuality.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊😊

[Pinay_ako]

A and B are same. 😂

C and F! All 4. But the sexiest is A.
C will crease in your backpack.
F is chiffon? Yea same will wrinkle.

have fun, V! 💕

[VIVANT]

Yes but different colors 😁😁

Tbws!! 😊

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌. Sexy yet so feminine. Love it 😍

[Msputiton]

Hard to say they are all pretty.

But it also comes down to seeing your build skintone and how the colors clash or match these.

But i really like B

[VIVANT]

That’s a good point. Esp bc the model looks kinda orange 🍊 😯

If it helps at all for reference, E is me.

Thank you 😊

[Msputiton]

It does. Probably D.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[Msputiton]

You're welcome enjoy your date

[TonyMetal___86]

Picked F, it looks the classiest, also i like it's design, it's modest when it comes to the boobs section but the only problem is that it's too short on the legs!

F is the most beautiful in my opinion also the most modest compared to the others...

[TonyMetal___86]

I hope that it all goes well with you skyscrapper girl and that you enjoy your date 😁

[VIVANT]

Thank you sir 😌

Honestly I’m just going it is normal, I don’t want any drama 😮‍💨 just people being decent people, I hope 🙏🏼

[TonyMetal___86]

Your welcome bumble bee princess 😌 🐝
There should be no drama, just enjoy your time and be happy, i'd like to know the after date update if it went well and if you had some good feelings 😁

[VIVANT]

I will update if it goes well lol 😆

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't forget to mention if you felt something or didn't have feelings at all, althea wants to know too 😁🐦

[VIVANT]

Ok I shall. Ali ! ♥️

[NathanDavis]

I went with D... it does seem to have the best fit and shape

and visually, very enjoyable

[VIVANT]

Thank you Nathan 😊

[Guy13]

Which ever one shows your waist best. And cover everything up SO his imagination has to work a little bit.

[VIVANT]

Everything will be covered, no matter which I wear 😊

[Guy13]

👍👍. Sure you’ll have a tremendous time,

[20yearsolder]

Second one's pretty transparent, I picked the last one. I just like the color and the fit. All of them are great

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[Jamie05rhs]

Definitely not any of the ones on top; otherwise he's going to be staring at your boobs the whole time. (Unless you don't mind that, of course. But I've heard that most women have an issue with it, as it makes them uncomfortable.)

[VIVANT]

I’ll be wearing a crop top under I hate cleavage. Also shorts under so nothing is revealed 😊

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay, cool; no problem.
For the record, I personally do like them. All of them. I just wouldn't be able to guarantee that my eyes wouldn't wander, if it was me. Just being honest.

[Jamie05rhs]

If you're going to the trouble of painting buttons, you might as well buy new buttons. They're probably cheaper than paint. And you have to take them off and sew them back on anyway if you're going to paint them, because you don't want to get paint on the dress.

[TadCurious]

Vivant the very first green dress caught my attention in a very positive way. That's the one!
😊👍🙋‍♂️

[VIVANT]

Thanks Tad! 😊

[DizzyDesii]

Loooove A and B!! The other options look like old lady gowns. Chose B

[VIVANT]

😂 really? What makes them look like that? Honestly reel question

Thanks you 😊

[DizzyDesii]

The others just look like old lady night gowns that a grandma would sleep in. And yea i didn't think you’d have cleavage out. A and B are dresses you wear over a bikini

[Finchie40]

Honestly I think they all look good , but what matters is the girl wearing them

[VIVANT]

😊🙃

[Lliam]

I think D and F are knock outs. I selected 'F'. But the others are cute, too.

[VIVANT]

Thanks Liam! 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

This one looks very good

[VIVANT]

Thank you good guy 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@VIVANT You're welcome :)

[Philyouup]

Miss Viv,
they all look fun and casual. The way you described them i’d say you’d pull any of the off without issue. but i like A and B. in particular

[VIVANT]

Same 😊

[Philyouup]

Like minds perhaps. lol.

[VIVANT]

☺️☺️🦋

[Philyouup]

is that you in the “e” picture?

[Firesparks]

I'd say get a flowy skirt or a dress from lulus. com like forever chic dress...

[VIVANT]

Al of these are flowy tho

[Firesparks]

Trying to think of something that would go with your top ( n your right their flowy n ) also trying think of a dress that wouldn't be revealing why I suggested forever chic dress from lulus... I'd rather see you look gorgeous in what you choose to wear than just any old dress..

[VIVANT]

These will not be see through bc I’ll have stuff on under. I just don’t see why I need to look for flory stuff tern this is already flowy. 🤷🏻‍♀️😊

[soe11]

First one or less one but without bra is the best

[VIVANT]

I’ll be wearing something under regardless of which dress 😊

[Havthrills]

I voted F. For you, that would look really good. Almost past casual but still casual.

[VIVANT]

Thank you good point 😊

[Havthrills]

I would like to know how it goes.

[roxy_362]

A & B seem to differ only in color. They all are pretty, but I tend go for A for its nice shade of green. ;-)

[VIVANT]

Yes they are the same dress in different colors. In the uodate I write that I chose them plus in a few more shades. 😊

[Anonymous]

B & E both look good..
Wear whatever makes you comfortable. Lol

[VIVANT]

Thanks! 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Your update 😂😂😂

[VIVANT]

lol what’s funny 😄

[loveslongnails]

Any of them except "C" will work fine.

[Apple1996]

B is super cute!

[VIVANT]

Thanks Apple 🍎!!

[Princess_shruti]

I would say option A or B… dear 😊

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[Princess_shruti]

Most welcome dear 😊

[VIVANT]

♥️♥️

[nomandik]

I like the shortest skimpiest dress or skirt especially if she is not wearing no underwear underneath cuz then she can tease me and I can stick my foot up there and tease her back

[jshm2]

Neither is very good and won't wear well wet.

Just get a hoodie and joggers if it's a "very casual" date.

[spartan55]

I like #1, #5, and #6.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[ChiTown33]

Of the choices I'd like E the best. But I prefer more conservative dress. So keep that in mind. 😆

[VIVANT]

I understand. I will have something on under so you can’t “ see” anything I never feel comfortable in receiving stuff. Thank you 😊

[Sevenpointfive]

i think i like F the best

[VIVANT]

Thanks Seven 😊

[Samantha_17]

Voted F.

So cute of a color :)

[VIVANT]

Thanks Sam! I really like that color too 😊😊

[Samantha_17]

It will also go well with whitish stockings underneath. Give it a try ;)

[Jennz6]

A) or B) are cute

[VIVANT]

Thanks Jenny!

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Last one would make my head turn even if you were across the street lol

[Andres77]

These are all perfect.

[VIVANT]

That’s cheating! Lol but thank you 🙏🏼

[Andres77]

No, the style is almost all the same, just different colors.

[VIVANT]

Ba the first two are the same the rest are different 😊😊

[Andres77]

Ok…man’s eyes …
It’s not my fault.., honest
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3nllrCss2CU

[Wise4myage]

I like D as well.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[Wise4myage]

Your welcome.

[Debbie14217]

they are beautiful

[VIVANT]

Thank you Debbie 🙏🏼

[Jenny-Marie]

I like the shape and I like white.

[VIVANT]

I love flowy white dresses Jenny. They are all available in white, which do you like best?

[Jenny-Marie]

I like b, c and particularly f if it was in white. I got one similar to d but don't like the feel of the fabric. Mid thigh skater style with puff sleeves are my current favourites.

[Jenny-Marie]

Best of luck, fingers crossed. You come across as a great lady🌞

[VIVANT]

Yeah the fabric isn’t the BEST but I will allow it loli

I LOVE mid thigh puffy skater dresses — skater is my wheelhouse 😅

Thank you Lady, ditto ♥️♥️

[ZenJen444]

The olive colored dress

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[Jerre]

I like B. Bet you look great in B.

[VIVANT]

Thank you Jerre! 😊

[Jerre]

@VIVANT Thank you for the Like

[Guardian45]

I love the first one!

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

I love 1,2,4 and the 5th one

[VIVANT]

Thank you 🙏🏼😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

Which ones do you like

[Xtendable]

I voted D but F would work well too

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[Xtendable]

You’re very welcome

[YollyM]

The design of dress F with the dress colour of D.

[AsaKyo]

B caught my interest immediately

[KrakenAttackin]

Tough choices but I voted F.

[yulia02]

B 😍