Flirt with as many people as i want... not feel as trapped if they stick around for more than a week... Stop talking to people out the blue when i get ready and not have to explain as to why... I dont have to share my bed... I get more sleep... I dont have to pretend to like their parents or siblings... I can make someone else cum while someone else is recharging and not feel as guilty... I dont have to dress to impress.. I’m not as distracted while working... I dont have to sneak and watch porn because they didn't give me enough rounds to make me tap out... I dont have to force myself to compliment them weekly... I dont have to adjust my schedule for them... I dont have to miss my tv shows to spend time with them... I dont feel suffocated with cuddles... I’m not asked to share my drink/food
Yea i realize i’m hard to satisfy for long and if he’s not most of what i want then he's just not enough and i’m better off single cause i’d be done hurt his ass
@Meatunnel69 no i met a lot who met 90% of what i want. I consider those unicorns. But i got annoyed with them being a bit clingy or not clingy enough. Like i said, in hard to satisfy
@DizzyDesii that's what I don't like either the clingy, rush, pushiness, then the constant calling and texting. Like omg im not doing this all day everyday. Its overwhelming. Right, I picked up on it with you when you mentioned the guy from work seeming as if he's trying to get closer. I can't remember everything you wrote. But it's definitely an aggravating experience. I was cordial with a guy in the neighborhood then when he got my number from me texting him a pet boarding infor. He starts texting as if I'm his girlfriend then asking me out. I blocked him lol
Im a talker so texting all day would annoy me. He can text me good morning and good night but other than that, i prefer to set aside a call time daily. And it needs to be before/after my shows so like 5/6pm or 10p+. But yea in May i dated 2 guys at diff times and both wanted me on the phone with them all day while they worked. Like shit i get shit to do. Even if its just to go grocery shopping, i need at least 3 hours of alone time a day
I'm 32 and never dated or kissed. I can't compare being single to relationships. There are many things I love about being single and living by myself. The number one thing is the freedom. I get to make all the decisions with no need to compromise. I buy only what I need. I don't have to look and smell perfect at home. I don't have to abide by her rules when it comes to keeping my place the way she wants. If I'm too lazy to do laundry or tidy up my room, no one is gonna nag about it. If I need a nap, no one is there to bother me. If I wanna dance and go crazy, no one is here to see me make a fool of myself. No need to worry as much about privacy. I will not be able to handle the stress that comes with having a woman around. Or worse... kids.
hmmm, I would not say it is something I enjoy because I am "not attached to being in a relationship"
but yes, I do appreciate the fact that I do have some flexibility and am able to enjoy the many other aspects of my life, like my hobbies, my friends, my relatives and family and some other things
that is something I'd still able to do while in a relationship but not to the same extent of course, and even so... I would not complaint about it lol, I'd still want to share all those things with a girlfriend, or to do our own things, her things as well... lol
Anything I enjoy doing while alone is much more fun with an SO.
I don't need space from an SO, I like clingy/needy women who share my interests and hobbies, because I don't feel trapped or restricted when with someone I get along with, so it doesn't feel like I have less freedom or like I'm exposed to extra drama.
Those sorts of problems are from dating someone who is mentally different, I'd only be dating a woman who is mentally like me.
I haven't found that yet though, at least not one my age who's not taken and is in the US.
I like being single as I don’t like people I don’t trust them either, being on my own means that I can come and go when I please I can also do what I want when I want without someone trying to control me my last relationship drained me so so much she hit me and made me want to end my life I finally got rid of her and now that I’m free though she’s still harassing me but she can’t physically get me anymore, and to get with someone else I think would frighten me as I’d fear them being like her. 😩
No kids, nagging wife, or commitments, I guess. But I'd much rather have the right partner, than be single. But I guess I didn't grow tall enough to deserve love from women.
Not having a bossy woman breathing down my neck or watching what I spend my money on. Although I do get extremely bored being single and having an SO helps to go out and do stuff so you don’t look like a loser creep being by yourself everywhere
Well with me it’s not a choice , I don’t seem to be able to find a girlfriend , the few good things about it are I can do what I want when I want with no one to answer to but it does get lonely
There is a fine line here. Single really sucks if you have recently been in a relationship that you really cared for them. But if not it's relieving but as all singled people do, unless you enter priesthood! Your looking for that new bestest friend , partner the one!
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