Boyfriend left my stuff, wouldn’t go get it?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend left my sweater in his car. When I asked for my sweater he looked for it then concluded he left it in his car and said I could use his blanket. When I said I didn’t want the blanket and asked if he could get my sweater he looked for it in his room again then said he left it in the car and he’d get it later.
Disappointed, I walked out and went back home. Was it that big of a deal?

[Anonymous]

Depends where his car was, could be lazy or it wasn’t nearby

[Asker]

It wasn’t that far. Like a 2-3 min walk away. Outside in the parking lot

[Opinion Owner]

I guess he didn’t feel like it or had the time to do that, I guess you were in a rush too since you just left like that, I guess you just got frustrated and that was your reaction

[Asker]

Yeah I think I was frustrated cause originally he didn't confirm it was in the car. He said he "probably" left it there but wasn't really doing much about locating it lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it’s something that wasn’t a big deal to him but was to you even though it wasn’t something to get that mad about, you probably just got frustrated because of how he didn’t care so much but you’ll eventually get it back

[Asker]

Yeah I feel you. I guess I've just been frustrated cause I feel like he's starting to care less and less about things. Like he used to walk me in the dark, now he just sends me off and hopes I get wherever safely. Also if I walk to slow he doesn't slow down anymore, he will literally walk off without me lol. But they're all small things I guess. I think people outperform themselves when they first meet a person and then settle down to who they really are later on.

[Opinion Owner]

We are always on our best behavior in the beginning, he is just showing how he really is now

[Asker]

Yeah. Thank you for your advice

[Opinion Owner]

No problem

[Anonymous]

Your making a big deal out of something so stupid and dumb. Why couldn't you go and get it yourself? Gosh was it really that hard. Yet you want to blow at him for something you won't even do yourself. Grow up and stop being so damn childish.

[Asker]

I had to go anyway I just left early. I couldn't go get it. Would've needed his id and keys to get in since we live in a high security building.

[Asker]

Also I didn't "blow up" lol. I politely asked two times. Then I said I was heading back home. I feel like his lack of care towards thing is gradually decreasing though, we're probably exiting out of the honeymoon phase.

[Asker]

gradually increasing*

[Luckycharms12]

Why didn't you get it

[Asker]

Couldn’t. It’s his keys. I could’ve asked maybe but the building has a lock on it as well, an ID is needed to get back in

[Luckycharms12]

He should have gotten it in that case