If someone you were talking to smoked or Drinked would that be a problem for you?

[Anonymous]

[kylee2437]

Depends on how often. I can’t date someone that does either of them excessively. I smoke here and there but I can also go without it. Same goes for drinking, I will have a drink or two or occasionally get drunk , but if someone relies on smoking / drinking it’s a turn off to me and I’m all set

[YollyM]

If they smoked it would be a deal breaker but if they drinked every day or maybe every weekend with the intention of getting drunk that would also be a deal breaker.

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Dear Men, A girl can smoke, drink, wear whatever and do whatever. You are not supposed to judge her.

And Girl, smoking, drinking and doing "whatever you can" do not make you strong, bold, independent and of course not revolutionary.

[MCheetah]

Yeah, it would. I can handle a light drinker (even though I don't drink myself), but a smoker is a big turn-off and no-no! I don't want to have anything to do with a smoker, especially a marijuana user.

[Summeroflove]

To what extreme? Nicotine isn’t bad in moderation though cigarettes have a lot of chemicals in them so I would prefer a cigar or a source that isn’t flooded with toxins.

Same with alcohol if someone’s a non functioning drunk that’s one issue. If someone drinks in moderation that’s fine but if they are a obnoxious drunk, are violent when drunk, or show their true colors when consuming alcohol yeah no thanks.

By the way… most of the time people mean what they say when they are drunk. They simply loose their filter they think those things. They would just never say it sober…. So there’s that.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Smoking tobacco? Unless it's ceremonial, yeah, problems.

Smoking weed? No problems.

Drinking? Socially, no problem. Addictive? Problem.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t like cigarettes. I don’t mind alcohol or weed as long as they don’t do it all the time.

[Sour-rose]

No. Smoke? Okay. Drink? Eh, fine... but i don't intend to get drunk with you sooo :)

[Cecinene]

Yes of course because I will feel irritated and I won't be comfortable.

[jamesgoldman]

As long as we aren't talking hard drugs, no as a BOTL myself and drinking is fine in my book in moderation

[exitseven]

no, smoking was a lot more accepted when I was dating.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t like smoking it’s secondhand smoke that’s a problem to. And nobody wants to drink too much

[despiteful]

If it was very excessive and heavy than yes

[Anonymous]

Drinking? maybe.

Smoking? Definitely

I neither smoke nor drink.

[DancingQueen16]

Yeah big problem