If the guy you call your bestfriends ask you to leave him alone for 2 months or give him a shot at dating you, would you consider giving it a shot?

[Anonymous]

[Thepumpkinhead]

That depends on how you want him in your life

[Asker]

She wants me as a buddy she says, she says she Just can't see me romanticly. and she feels bad having to reject me. Its not that she doesn't want to see me like that and sge has seen me as a possible boyfriend before but until now there was no way to make it work. Now it can, but she is unable too see me like that.

Yesterday i told her it hurt me to much to watch her dating while i don't get a shot and asked her to leave me alone for 2 months or return earlier if she realises being my girlfriend is the right choice

[Thepumpkinhead]

That's just so absurd. I don't even think you'll last long when you two will be in a relationship because she can't see you in a romantic way.

She'll be giving you a chance just because he pity you and just because she feels bad about it.

Do you want that? A relationship out of pity

[Asker]

Not even long ago she had a romantic dream about me but she was still with someone else. So iknow she still has feelings for me deep within her. Thst she locked away.

Offcourse i don't want her to give me a chance out of pity thats why im asking her to leave me alone for now. To focus on myself so if she decides to come back earlier then i asked it would be out of her breaking the lock she put on our friendship and because she actually wants it. If not I have had time to become stronger mentally. She will come back to a stronger version of me. One that can accept her as a buddy and maybe even a man she can't reach if I really get focused.

But she instant checked my insta stories today and only 1 day has passed so she doesn't like this road i have choosen.

And offcourse i don't want a pitty relationship from her. Have had one with someone else before. You don't see it until she cheats on you.