Ladies would you give your male crush a second chance after he friend zone you the first time?

[womensuck]

Lets say you have a crush on a guy friend and you confessed you feelings to him, but he kindly put you in the friend zone... so a year later he regrets putting you in the friend zone, because he now develops a crush on you as well. So on day, he confess his crush on you, would you reject him, all because he rejected you first, even if you was still single?

A real woman wouldn't let pride get in the way, by friend zone a guy all because she got friend zone. Maybe it took him a full year to adjust his feelings by thinking, is she girl I want.

[thegirlwithgreeneyes]

Every girl's different. For me, it's a little hard to say. I tend to let my pride get in the way when it comes to relationships and the like, as I don't normally pursue guys. I normally wait until they're pursuing me. It's not that I think I'm better or anything, it's more of a protecting my heart kind of thing. So if I had actually went after him first, I'd be a little more cautious about his intent asking me a year later, and maybe a tad bitter I guess. But that's just me personally, you know?

I think if we remained good friends, I would give him a chance, if I still had feelings for him. But if you never try, you'll never know.

[landingsight]

If after all that time I still had a crush on the guy, I probably wouldn't turn him down just out of spite. What would be the point of that?

If, however, I'd moved on after he rejected me, then I would turn him down. I don't see any reason to date someone who I don't have feelings for.

[justme20]

honestly no. After one year chances are I friend zoned him myself and moved on to another guy who knows what he wants and won't take one year to make up his mind

[legomyeggo]

I wouldn't reject him, at least I don't think. A lot can happen a year after though...maybe I met a guy and I started dating him, or I don't have those same feelings...however, if I did carry some feelings and I felt that he genuinely does love me like I do for him, I'd go for it.

I'm open to second chances, and I wouldn't blame the guy for taking time to assess himself or how he feels, I'm the same at times.

[CarinaCath]

depends on things.

a) if I still like him.

b) are we still friends.

But I'd probably say no, pride thing...

[patoot10]

the guy swallowed his pride and confessed his feeling why reject him if you still like him !

[CarinaCath]

Because I'm bad person, I guess?

[Anonymous]

my crush and I had a crush on each other for almost ten years.

our situation causes us to have to stay away from one another but, we both know that the feelings are still there.

so if the feelings are still there then ifs a go all in type of deal.