What should I do? My boyfriend will only make female friends?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend will only make female friends. He says that men are to hard to get along with and that he doesn’t like hanging out with them. I have communicated that I don’t feel comfortable with him only having female friends and he doesn’t care.

[CloudMassacre]

All my friends are women and I get how he feels about guys. I’m 26 years old and I have never once even approached doing anything sexual with them. If my partner has a problem with that, they really have a problem with me, so they should find someone else that they can trust instead

[Asker]

He just never takes my feelings into account. He even lets one of his friends call me Psycho. And has even told me he liked on of his friends boobs.

[CloudMassacre]

It sounds like the issue is more that he doesn’t take your feelings into account than his friends being women. Like if he had guy friends and he let them say the same and said one has a nice ass, how would that be any different?

[Asker]

I would be uncomfortable with it and upset just like I was when he told me about the girl because he shouldn’t be okay with anyone calling me that. And the ass thing I know he would never say because that’s him he would never even joke about another guy sexually.

[CloudMassacre]

I’m just saying is him having female friends the root of the problem, or is it more that he’s an inconsiderate asshole?

[Asker]

Yeah it’s definitely that he never takes my emotions into account. Just last night he told me he added on sc and was texting a girl that I asked him not to talk to because I felt she was being to flirty and he said he didn’t see her being flirty. And when I reminded him last night that I asked him not to add her on snap he just said he forgot and it was to late now.

[Guy13]

That’s not a good sign because we only befriend people who we are attracted too…in some way. I will not date a woman as n whose “bestie” is male. The reality is there is serious attraction in Bestie. Good luck with it…I know it’s like breaking your heart piece by piece-girl by girl.

[supercutebutt]

You will need to set yourself apart from the other ladies. Maybe get a butterfly tattoo surrounding your vulva?

[chicosuave]

Don't worry about it. It's different for guys and girls. When girls are friends with guys it never goes anywhere. Most girls who are friends with guys are all friendzoned so you never have to worry about girls making a move

[Asker]

Actually one of his friends has tried getting with him.

[KrakenAttackin]

He is one of those men who is afraid of other men, they are a sad species.

[Anonymous]

You communicated your feelings he responded. Now the ball is in your court.