Dating is just prostitution in slow motion. True or false?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[DenizLikesTennis]

This post has been created by a user who couldn't handle the reality because not every woman will be into you. Preferences.

So as an effect, he unleashes his inner alpha male. And he does such posts... FOR A LIFETIME.

This is mere experience with these guys complaining over and over. Digging their own grave deeper. I didn't need to think when I read the title. I know the psychology behind this. Another typical red pill, MGTOW Virus. Those guys are full of hate, mysogynism and misery. Do you actually think that this attitude makes you happy? Healthy?

No... I am so certain that deep inside, you'd wish to be a different person where you'd enjoy dating, life and anything again.

Once rejected, once disappointed or hurt... I will hate women forever, make them look bad, aussault. Holy cow...

Great. You should play Mortal Kombat instead if you are about that...

Rejection and pain is a major part of the process in finding your love and vice versa.

Women are the biggest victims in the society when it comes to having a relationship.

She is enjoying her life by having sex? Call 911, abort her.

She is going to the club with her clique and having a good time? Call her any names.

She is wearing a mini-skirt? Damn son...

She has had 4 relationships? Abort her.

😞😞😞

Red Pill, MGTOW = Pure Toxicity, Complain/Whine machines.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

U lose

[D_Bone_Steak]

I put true because most of the time... it sort of is. A clear exchange of money or something of monetary value for sex or the GFE... sometimes the BFE.

So yeah they'll have get-togethers and tell people about their romantic meetings, but if you get to know them too well... you'll start to understand the real situation. They cheat, they horde things from each other, and eventually, you see all out destruction... I don't call that love. That's something else. I believe in love, but that's not it. Go on any dating site where most are just demanding things in exchange for their pictures... you'll start to recognize it for what it is. I'm not even saying it's a high-class like a houseboat and brilliant life in exchange... sometimes it's just some chick with a barista job demanding six-pack abs and a bunch of shit. Stupid shit like earrings and tattoos. The kind of shit that makes you want to step back and say "hold up, what?"

The giggalos are on the rise as well... it's not just women being the whores anymore. I won't go into all of that, just I recognize there's an exchange going on 9.99% of the time.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I had to fuck that number up didn't I... FML.

[RomanticRealist]

I mean, listen... If there's a prostitute doing everything I do in my relationship, please tip her very well because she's definitely over-performing, but also maybe advise her that this level of client attention is probably unsustainable for her business model.

On a more serious note, none of the women I've known who are involved in sex work have any interest in treating their clients the way they / I treat boyfriends. They're there to get their money, sometimes any kind of money, in as pleasant a way possible and then move on. There's a very clear boundary and space there. They're less selective (if selective at all - any $$ will do in many cases) than they are when choosing a partner.

Unless your dating life is just to get one night stands, there's no serious comparison here. Even then, dating for one night stands is a lot harder for most men than using prostitutes.

In dating, if your goal is to find a relationship, you're seeking personal information, personality vibe, connection, emotional, compatibility, and life traits/qualities that don't matter in prostitution. Relationships and romance involve a shit ton of things that the vast majority of prostitutes have no interest in giving you at all and vice versa.

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist You have women friends that prostitutes that have boyfriend's? What type of men are their boyfriend's?

[RomanticRealist]

@Vegasrunner

Not at the moment but I’ve known women who had to do sex work of some kind at one point or another. And I have no idea what their boyfriends were like because I never met them. But yes, I think all of them had boyfriends at some point. Aside from explicit prostitution, I did meet a few strippers who had bfs while stripping. (Some consider stripping sex work as well) Their bfs seemed normal but I didn’t get to know them on some deeper level. They were friendly normal guys. One was a neighbor in my building and her boyfriend worked as a carpenter and musician. He was very nice and friendly and cute. She had a girl next door vibe and said that helped her in the strip club. Same with a friend I met in college who later went to study science at an Ivy. She was a Christian girl who felt conflicted about it but wanted to pay her debt off while in school or avoid too much debt. I do some political organizing and one of the most active activists I know used to do sex work for money (prostitution I believe) a while in the past. I think she has a boyfriend now but I don't know anything about him. Probably just a normal dude with a normal job. She has a normal job now too.

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist I definitely consider stripping as sex work. Interesting any man that would openly date a sex worker is pretty weak in my opinion. I live in Vegas so I've banged my share of strippers but I couldn't imagine being out in public openly claiming them. Funny thing I'm you mentioned the political campaign I'm working on a political campaigns rn and there seems to he a ton of cross over between former prostitutes and activist.

[RomanticRealist]

@Vegasrunner

That's your opinion, but I doubt those men cared what other men thought about them and their stripper girlfriends. Most men who are strong minded couldn't care less about what some random guy thinks about their girlfriend. I think they thought they were beautiful, sweet, caring, and intelligent and based it on that - and the ones I met were exactly that.

I don't see myself compatible with someone who is *currently* doing sex work, but if it's a past thing, I wouldn't judge them for it and would focus on caring for and accepting them for who they are and what they've had to struggle through. I assume these men had a similar kind of heart.

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist Women always say that BS. But like you said thats just your opinion. Reality is if a man was "strong minded" he wouldn't be openly dating a sex worker as that is a character trait of a weak man, proof being the only one validating him would be the people that are exploiting him. I can't speak to someone's "heart" because it's not tangible, and I've never man that I respected that openly dated a sex worker so I would say they probably just couldn't get better so they settled for what they could get.

[RomanticRealist]

@Vegasrunner

Everything you're saying is subjective opinion and your own emotions. There's nothing objectively strong about choosing not to date a sex worker. If anything, there's a stronger argument to be made that it takes a lot more confidence and self assurance to trust your partner when they work in these environments. You have to have a stronger state of mind when it comes to self-soothing any anxieties and doubts that are unsubstantiated and resisting messagings that he shouldn't date her. Weak minded = doing what people tell you to do because sex workers are viewed negatively. It takes a stronger man to choose his own path based on both rationality and who the person is.

So what you've said sounds like your subjective emotions and biases based on cultural stereotypes and nothing more. There's far more actual science to support the idea that it takes courage, self confidence, etc. to go against the grain of how society feels about your partner and to quiet any doubts or anxieties because of her work environment as a stripper.

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist Actually your the one providing subjective opinion based theories in fact saying things like "I doubt those men cared what other men thought" That's as opinion based as it gets. Yes you could make that argument if you were a sex worker looking to keep a man of value however no man would be considered a man of value amongst HV men for wifing up a sex worker. If the only woman you can attract is one whose only value is to provide sex for money to strangers then there is no strength needed for that simply a lack of respect for ones self. The "emotion statement is standard transference women use when they are faced w/ a different POV. You're emotional because it's difficult for you to face the fact that sex workers dont have value as quality partners. You dont have any justifiable argument so your only tactic is to pretend that I others argue in the same emotional factor as you. Also "courage and Self confidence" are intangible and subjective, and cannot be measured scientifically so you are at best incorrect at worst simply telling a lie in a failed attempt to try to make a point. In the end you only validate my point that women dont like when men have standards and no man w/ respect for himself would wife up a stripper. I live in Vegas and spent many years in the nightclub industry and have banged more than my share of strippers and even most of them will tell you that only a weak man or simp would wife them up. While it's cute you feel the need to defend women, trying to make the erroneous claim that a "strong" man wife's up low value women is probably not the best hill to die on.

[RomanticRealist]

@Vegasrunner

No - a logically sound conclusion is one that has objective evidence behind it. "Subjective" refers to things related to personal opinion. There's no objective evidence that sex workers objectively have no value beyond sex. Scientifically, you couldn't prove that - because there is no logically sound argument backed by objective evidence. The most you can prove is that many people share *subjective* opinions about people based on their own social conditioning, biases, social norms, etc.

I'd also argue that you can measure qualities, behaviors, and probably even neurological activity that indicate higher levels of what we identify as confidence and self-esteem. Psychology and neurology would disagree with you.

Have a good one!

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist Your entire statement is based on your personal opinion. In fact one of your very first statements was "I doubt those men cared what other men thought" Which is less opinion more bizarre statement. A lot of which is factually inaccurate. If sex workers have value what percentage of them go on to work hom industry jobs after they get out?

[RomanticRealist]

@Vegasrunner

Hmm so you're choosing to ignore the points I've made that challenge your logical reasoning and overlook the arguments I've hinted toward that show my opinion has more objective evidence than yours does. That's cool - understood. Have a good night :)

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist You had a point? As far as I can tell you feel as if you think it takes strength for a man to wife up a sex worker and this is based on a feeling you have about men who never articulated this to you? What part am I missing?

[RomanticRealist]

@Vegasrunner

It's okay, friend. You missing things seems like it may be on brand. Don't worry about it - have a good Friday though. It's the weekend! 🕺

[Vegasrunner]

@RomanticRealist If the message is unclear it's the fault of the author. Based on your own words you believe that sex workers have value. That is certainly a belief you are welcome to entertain however, the fact that you can't articulate any tangible reasons why a HV man should settle for a sex worker only validates. That belief.

[Anonymous]

Nah, not for most people. It sucks that "you can't get laid" is what people are defaulting to though. It's shitty and gross to think people deserve to feel bad for having a different dating life than normies. Then they're surprised when being treated like garbage makes you mad.

[OlderAndWiser]

Believe what you want. How's that attitude working for you so far?

[Asker]

Pretty good. I got my dick sucked by two girls at a party Saturday night

[HippieVeganJewslim]

That doesn’t sound like dating.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you are popular with some sluts.

[Asker]

Who said i was dating them

[DenizLikesTennis]

@Asker lier... if it was the case, you wouldn't be this miserable. Internet warlord

[Asker]

We have the poll bare of comment sections

[Vegasrunner]

@DenizLikesTennis That's a ridiculous lie that both men and women tell themselves and try to perpetuate. If what you were saying was true that would mean the only online relationship perspective would come from women or guys that can't get laid. (Which in my opinion is what modern society wants) Whenever men who do get pussy share this online the natural default is to say the nonsense you say. If you can take all the losers at face value why are u struggling w/ taking him at face value?

[OrallyFixated]

@asker
How much did you pay for those two girls to suck your dick?

[Asker]

I didn't pay with money. I paid with patience and time

[DenizLikesTennis]

@asker, like 8 years?

[Asker]

Didn't know parties last 8 years

[OrallyFixated]

@asker
“I didn't pay with money. I paid with patience and time.”
So how is that like prostitution? As far as i know, most prostitutes give no shits about your patience and time.
They want cash.

[Asker]

Because both end up leading to one thing which is sex. One is just time while the other you pay upfront

[MCheetah]

It kinda is if you're a simp. That's why SMART men don't spend money on women they just met!

But even still though, the answer is still false, because prostitutes almost guarantee sex if you pay them; modern women you take on dates (and simp to) are like the world's worst prostitutes who're expecting you to be down on your hands and f*cking knees, thanking them for draining your bank account for them, all while they tell other people "I just want a man with 'stability'" and that they're NOT being a gold-digging thot.

Prostitutes and escorts would literally be a better deal than most modern women nowadays.

[KelleyNice]

From certain angles, you might say that. However, there is a significant difference. In dating, the money a guy has matters. However, for most women, it is not just the money because the woman must be attracted to the man and it is limited to one or just a few men; while in prostitution, most any man will do and there is almost no limit on the number of men.

[Guardian45]

Well-said

[Asker]

Yeah but if the money stops rolling in a relationship, it eventually will fall apart. A man has to have to money too

[KelleyNice]

As I stated, the money a guy has matters; however, in a relationship, money in not the only thing.

[Asker]

But its an important factor that can impact the relationship

[Guardian45]

Prostitution is a financial transaction: sex for money. Period.

NORMAL dating is NOT a financial transaction, unless your some kind of nobility. Dating is usually based on mutual attraction, & financial self-sufficiency. Money management usually becomes an important part of a couples success, but many poor couples are very happy together.

[Asker]

You pay for it either way. You just pay for it in other ways that don't involve money

[DenizLikesTennis]

@Asker, get a job. Are you broke?

[Guardian45]

How very sad that you see dating that way. I only hope you find the right person to change your mind.

[Asker]

Not everything is sunshine and rainbows

[Guardian45]

It certainly isn't, but I would NOT call dating prostitution. NOT even close!

[Asker]

One gives you sex quick, the other eventually gives you sex

[Guardian45]

You're still comparing apples and oranges. Yes, they're both fruits, but they don't taste ANYTHING alike!

[Asker]

I mean sex is sex. doesn't matter how long you wait for it, its still sex regardless prostitute or not

[Guardian45]

I mean food is food. doesn't matter how long you wait for it, its still food regardless served or bought

[Asker]

Yeah there's practically no difference just the waiting

[SnowedIn]

I say false. Prostitution is usually illegal and it is a transactional exchange of money for sex. Dating is not illegal and while money is often involved it's a result of the dating and not a component of a transaction. Plus, dating usually (not speaking for all folks) involves more than sex.

[Haha456]

The bitter guy who can't get any dates, yes, it may seem that way to you

[Asker]

"You're bitter"
"Incel"
"Who hurt you?"
"Basement dweller"
"You just can't get laid"

[Agagagagaga]

That about covers the usual canned responses we can expect from the women of GaG. Real creative ladies of vision.

[PeteBy]

Hmm interesting. A lot of women deliberately go out and go for the guy who buys most drinks for them may get laid.

To be fair it's a game men know and in my opinion are stupid to get involved in. Can spot a 'free drink fuck' a mile away.

[dynamicyandere]

False. It’s different. Since prostitution implies a very transactional exchange.


People that dare keep dating if there’s chemistry.


People that hook up, hook up if there’s chemistry (whether it be temporarily or not, at some point they felt like they were vibing).


Unless the girl is simply putting out for food, drinks, or money… It’s not prostitution.


If the girl IS putting out just for food, drinks, or money… That’s not dating… That’s just a sad life.

[dynamicyandere]

People that date keep dating*

[dustybiker]

This isn’t bitter, at all.

[Guardian45]

No, not at all.

[Asker]

"You're bitter"
"Who hurt you?"
"Incel"
"Basement dweller"
"You just can't get laid"

[AddylynnNightingale]

It is true for women expecting to be paid. But for us, no. You can have a date just sitting at the park. Costs nothing.

[MementoMori_]

A first date maybe, but not a second one.

[Asker]

Exactly bro

[Guardian45]

@MementoMori_. @Asker. Actually, that's NOT true.

[MementoMori_]

An opinion is neither true nor false.

[Guardian45]

@MementoMori_. Yes, and a second date could NOT cost anything too.

[Asker]

Guadian you're still paying for it in other ways

[Guardian45]

Like?

[Raaj4you]

Hookup with a person who wants to hookup. Date serious who wants to date seriously. It depends on you. What do you want?

All men have penises. All women have vaginas and breasts. Fall in love with a person not for her or his body, money and properties.

[TonightYouu]

It’s is nowadays 🤣

girls you just met expect you to blow a bag on the first date

bitch I don’t even know your middle name yet

fr the first date should always be spent getting to know each other

https://bestlifeonline.com/1950s-dating/

[rtj1211]

Prostitution is giving a paying customer what they want.

Dating should be about engaging with an attractive partner for mutual enjoyment, fun, joy and happiness.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Well said. God bless. We need more men like you and me and everyone

[Subarugirl]

Only of you look at dating as a transaction and if you do then you would be better served by prostitution rather than dating.

[Guardian45]

Well-said!

[Subarugirl]

@Guardian45 lol apparently some but hurt boys don’t agree haha

[Agagagagaga]

You go girl! That’ll show those men! I mean boys! Slay Queen!

🙄

[Vanidal]

Can be true, can be false.
You could even see dating as emotional slavery.
Sometime in the past, it could be an act that hiddens political diplomacy.
I guess, depends on what you want from it.

[loveslongnails]

Only if you happen to be one of those guys who consistently chooses the wrong women to date. Are you?

[DenizLikesTennis]

Lol he comments that he is getting laid apparently. 😂🤣😂🤣

[Anonymous]

Some make it so. So don't go rewarding low profile gold diggers with free meals on date 1 like a sycophant/sucker keeps doing.

And then we have marriage, the CONTRACTUAL prostitution under a different and more legal name.

[Subarugirl]

and I hope no woman is unfortunate enough to end up an either of those situations with you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl awww, butthurt already.

[Subarugirl]

Hahaha no not at all blue anon, I just know a red flag when I see one, and I’d rather not some poor girl have to learn the hard way.

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl OK and?

[Subarugirl]

And my original statement still stands honey... I know that might be difficult for you to comprehend since your over inflated ego gets in the way, but if you read it really slowly and sound out the words you might be able to understand.

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl All I see are insults and I'm not taking that serious.

[Subarugirl]

Awww butt hurt already? I was just warming up

[dustybiker]

Good luck finding a woman who won’t see through you. Even royalty has more class than ego compared to you.

[Opinion Owner]

@dustybiker another one.
Keep them coming.

[Subarugirl]

If you can’t handle the truth with out getting all butt hurt, then you certainly should be in any sort of sexual relationship with anyone else, so do the world a favor and stick to the tissues and bottle of lotion until you’re able to mature enough to handle it

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl oh hey, you're still here. I didn't know you like me that much 😁

[Subarugirl]

Lol like is an interesting choice of words of your part. Wishful thinking much? Hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl I'm not sure if this dialog is going anywhere but you keep coming back.

[Subarugirl]

The psychology of boys who view other human beings as objects to be used intrigues me. I guess it’s a morbid curiosity

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl Believe it or not but I am no fan of viewing women as mere organic sex toys. Same goes towards the type of females, who view men as wallets.

[Subarugirl]

Well if money is the most attractive thing about you and that’s what you use to attract a partner that is what you’ll get.

[YollyM]

I get your point but when it comes to getting pregnant, giving birth, raising the kids, cleaning the home, cooking, washing clothes amongst other things it becomes a different thing.

[Asker]

I get that. But im talking aboit two people dating no kids or marriage

[Fireguy17]

When I'm on a date I'm interested in that person, maybe establishing a good relationship with them.
No preconceived notions about sex, just 2 people enjoying each other's company.
With a prostitute it's slam bam thank you maam.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Wrong perspective. Prostitution is a deal in advanced being made that sex with be exchanged for money or gifts.

Dating is when you go out on a date and get to know a person and to consider them a potential romantic relationship.

[Asker]

She won't give you any sex if you don't listen to her problems or take her out somewhere. There's a price for sex even if its not by conventional means