Is dating fake?

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I would love to be in a relationship, marry and have kids. But:

When you hear any girl talk about what they look for, it’s all superficial….6’4, handsome, fit, makes over 100k, nice car. Women will never say something nice.

Women complain about men not being loyal because they chase the men every woman want and then wonder. You would never give a guy at Starbucks a chance.

douglas_1170 · Accepted Answer

Dating is this twisted game show where everyone's holding up cards with their ideal mate's stats. '6 feet 4 inches tall, chiseled jawline, and a job that pays more than a small country's GDP!'

And don't get me started on loyalty. It's like they expect guys to be highly skilled virgins, but then they're chasing after the hotshot lawyers and pro athletes. Meanwhile, the poor guy at Starbucks, brewing your latte with genuine kindness, is invisible.

It's like we're all playing 'Where's Waldo?' except instead of finding a guy in a red and white striped sweater, we're looking for the one who isn't defined by his income or his abs, not to mention his huge Guerilla schlong and his mystical understanding of female irrationality.

But hey, let's not generalize. Not all women are guilty of this. Some are searching for that find a lesbian unicorn. They're absolutely the best ones to date, because then at least you're both interesting in muff diving and equally as charged with testosterone.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So most girls tend to only swipe yes on the same old 4% of men, these guys then cheat as they literally have the pick of the crops, most normal guys experience of a dating app is hardly anyone ever talks, I'm lucky if I got 1 chat per 3 months, now I'm also picky, most girls my age (37) already have kids and are going through some divorce hating their baby daddies. I would like a family of my own but I'm concerned it's too late for me,

My best advice is stay away from avoidant attachment styles, they will not put in effort but are also a massive waste of time
Secure and anxious attachments will give you loyalty and love in return

BMW_888 · Accepted Answer

The reason why women don't give the guy working at Starbuks a chance, besides looks is the guy can't even afford to take her out on dates, what somemore get married & start a family. Financially stable is very important if not all will regret & suffer.

It also comes down to preferences not all women got the same taste, they may except a guy who is not exactly Prince Charming.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

You have to stop worrying that you’re not as good as other guys. That will make you even less desirable.

Avicenna · Answer

You need to meet women that have the same priorities as you. The rest are irrelevant.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I "like" cough you question however dating is not fake, unless scammed. Most women have a prechecklist the same way I as a man am open that I also have my dream list items of "hot pretty face woman, big E cups tits, flat stomach, shapely figure, pale skin, humble personality, cute womanly high pitched voice, blah blah blah blah" - the same way women may want expectations of their man like "6 foot plus, big biceps, broad physique" lol 😂 😆

Anonymous · Answer

That has not been my personal experience. I would not use the women on this site or social media as a basis for your opinion. The quality of women you'll find IRL to be much better. This site is mainly people just ranting

Anonymous · Answer

Welcome back for yet another crying session. Ever get tired of whining about the same thing repeatedly?

Anonymous · Answer

Of those all I want is tall and fit.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

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