Is this weird or fine?

Question

I’m 25 not 18-24 and I’ve never even had a date. I’m not sure it will ever happen. Or if I even want to date at all.
I look good but can’t help but believe that the only way to get girls is by being super attractive.

Even though I know normal guys have found girls. Girls go wild for the attractive guys even when they are mean.

I don’t see the point in trying. I worked hard to get my life together and established my first business.

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

No, it isn't weird at all and completely fine. You focused on things that were important to your life first. Nothing wrong with that at all. Dating isn't the most important thing in life, especially when you are younger.

I don't see a single negative of what you did. You focused on yourself and your career. If anything, I see that as a positive having someone that is established as opposed to still trying to get things together.

I can only imagine that most girls will view that the same way I would. Don't worry about not dating yet. It isn't a big deal. I had dated when I was younger, but the relationships (while not meaningless) were not very serious as far as longterm future.

It was only when I was your age that I found Mr Right. We are now engaged. So, technically, it took 25 years to get to that point. Absolutely nothing wrong with the way you have gone about life. I don't think you have a thing to worry about.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well if you're not sure you even want to date at all. Let me save you the suspense. No, it probably WON'T happen. You have to be willing to humiliate yourself by asking women out, lost of women. If you want to even have a shot. Yeah the hotter guys are going to have thier pick of the litter and they're not going to have to work nearly as hard that is true. Because looks do matter, regardless of what anyone may tell you. But you still have a shot. You might have to be less choosy though.